I have only had 2 sexual partners. I contracted genital hsv1 3 years ago when my boyfriend gave me oral sex. He had a sore on his mouth that he thought was a cut (stupid on my part, I know.) I had gotten sores 7 days later. I wore contact lenses at the time and may have spread it. I no longer wear them. Now, I hardly ever get outbreaks. Maybe one in the beginning of each year.
I try my best to maintain a mainly plant based diet. Including lots of vitamins.
My boyfriend never has genital lesions because he has had hsv 1 in the mouth since he was a child. I only have it in my genitals so it's no issue for us to have unprotected sex.
Recently, we broke up and I had unprotected sex with a woman in December. I did not give her oral sex, but she gave me oral sex and rubbed her privates on mine for a few seconds. She had no lesions. I washed up immediately after, and continued my normal vitamin intake.
About 20 days later, I had an outbreak in my genitals and left eye. I'm quite familiar with them, as I already have hsv 1 but I am also having back pain. I was in a car accident 3 years ago which gave me radiculopathy and back pain but I don't know if I'm just paranoid.
I got tested 4 weeks post exposure and these are the results.
I got tested for both IGM and IGG
HSV 1 IGG >8.0 Positive
HSV 2 IGG <0.2 Negative
HSV 1 IGM Negative
HSV 2 IGM Negative.
I also had a PCR blood test done 5 weeks post exposure, as insisted on by my doctor
HSV 1 & 2 came back negative via PVR. (I know, these tests don't show hsv in the blood as they are neurological viruses.)
I had additional IGG and IGM testing yesterday for my own comfort, 6 weeks post exposure and I am still waiting on the results.
I'm pretty frustrated with my doctor because I had to teach HIM about hsv testing. He knows nothing about it. I tried calling labs but they just tell me to speak with my doctor so google and this site has been my only help.
My ex and I have been talking back and fourth. My biggest fear is trusting my negatives and passing it on to him so we will not be having sex. I have been mixing them and rubbing them along my spine as well as taking in lots of water and only eating plants. I also drop 3 drops of oregano oil and coconut oil under my tongue twice a day. The oregano oil has been working wonders and stops all of my back nerve pain and irritation.
Would you consider 6 weeks post exposure a reliable date?
Was it too early to test?
Would you consider my past igg and igm semi- reliable?
What are the chances of me having hsv 2?
Do I really have much to worry about?
Can the oregano oil help prevent viral shedding?
Could it be a false negative?
My ex and I broke up for less than a month and we really want to have a baby. If I test positive, I will not be getting back with him because I care about him way too much to give him HSV 2. I would rather sacrifice the relationship and my hopes in it than to have him experience hsv2.
I feel so stressed and my anxiety is getting the best of me. Please help.