Hi all, so I have been dealing with hemorrhoids for awhile which are internal. It’s hard to pass stool because it hurts, and usually I bleed after every time I go to the bathroom.
About a few days ago, I noticed I had a lump around my anus region. It itches and is a bit tender. I am sexually active, however I have only had unprotected sex with one partner and it was anal sex. My ex and I have both been routinely tested for herpes in the past and we both ended up having negative results. Yet I understand that in most cases some test aren’t exactly accurate, but because we ended our relationship we decided it would be best to get tested together so we both know we are clean for our next potential partners. The last time we had sex was in August of last year.
I have had a new partner in February of this year. We used condoms and there was no oral sex. My next partner was in April once again we used condoms and there was oral sex. Finally I had a short fling in May which ended me reviving oral sex. It didn’t last more than 30 seconds and my partner picked around my buttocks but never my anus.
I understand that herpes can be transmitted through skin to skin contact, so regardless if I used a condom or not there is possibility for exposure. However to lower the risk I still find it necessary to use condoms with hookups because you can never be too sure. (Just to add, I HAVE only had anal sex with one person which is my ex. Never have I engaged in anal sex with other hookups he is the only person because I trusted him and we got tested before sex).
Below are a few pictures that I have taken, my mother who is a nurse looked at the photos and tells me that my anal region seems to be swollen and I may just be overreacting. Although for clarity I will be getting tested.
Just wondering what do you guys think? Herpes isn’t a death sentence however if I do have it I’ll be informing all potential partners in the near future.