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Penis head itching tested negative for std

So i went out with some friends one night and got real drunk and blacked out i had no idea what happened. Anyway they left me with one of there friends that lives close to the bar there that i knew as well because i was feeling sick. So the only thing i remember was waking up to him giving me oral and didn't realize it was him. i snapped quick and i quickly got up falling on stuff trying to gain couscous and grabbed my stuff and left. worst night of my life.

So I have no idea really how long he did it for. I was so mad at myself to getting that drunk. Or that a guy did this to me. I'm not even gay or knew he was gay.
Anyway what's worse is that I have a fiancé that's pregnant and im so happily in love with her and it really breaks my heart. And now l feel like I cheated and don't know how to react with what happen.

So after the night i started to feel my penis head burning and sometimes needing to urinate often  my genital and sometimes my anus i got tested a week after for a full std sti panel. They took my blood and urine test and came back negative. No discharge or pain when peeing and my doc said my penis looked fine. I know a week is not enough but I'm going back for another test soon. My pain comes and goes I start feeling like pain all around my genitals and sometimes feel like blue balls and or one ball in general. But than it all goes away. I feel it could be my anxiety making it worse but i don't know.

I'm still worried to death because I have the same pains on my penis head and sometimes genital and anus. I'm so scared and terrified my anxiety is going of the walls because of what happen. I want to get tested again and make sure. I don't want to infect my fiancé and baby I feel like my life is over.
Please help
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3149845 tn?1506627771
Hi, same answer as in your STD group post. Extremely low risk.
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thanks again for the reply. I just wanted to see other answers on the pain I am having
thank you again.
8 weeks would be conclusive?
for all std tests?
3149845 tn?1506627771
8 weeks as a good indicator for herpes and 6 days for gono , thats about it
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okay thank you. anything right before would be false?
and for a fool panel test urine and blood being done only 8 weeks would be for gono and herpes?
what about chlam/syph , HIV or anything else??
you say my risk is low and read it as well. but how so on your perspectives and studies show? Thnaks
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