You've had it for more than a year. You have antibodies which prevent you from spreading it to other areas of your body, including your hand and your eye.
Did you ever get a test done? I was reading over your posts, and you had some symptoms, but I didn't find anything about actually get diagnosed.
If you do have hsv1, you either have it orally or genitally. It doesn't appear on your hand, and it's never just a few small red dots.
Itchy red rashes on your hands can be s problem - but NOTHING to do with herpes. Please see a doctor. You may be allergic to something that is causing your hands to break out, or you may have contacted a plant that is causing you to have itchy hands.
This isn't related to herpes, at all, but if you transfer a bacterial infection to your eyes, it could cause you a lot of discomfort and may end up in infection. Herpes - no. But if you have had a reaction to a plant, like poison ivy, you could transfer that to your eyes. Also, it may be a simple reaction to detergent or something else you contacted in the environment.