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Sex with Escort, STD/ Herpes Symptoms?

Hi,  i am 32 Male had sex with Escort one week back.  Oral and Vaginal,  used Condom for both. Had Closed lip gentle kiss. First She opened the Condom with her teeth and put it to my penis by her mouth.  Had oral for few minutes and had Vaginal sex for a minute and ejaculated inside her with condom,  kissed onher cheeks several times and she had pimples kind of stuff more on her cheeks near to mouth.  I pulled out and Condom was on but i didnt see much whether it was teared/broke or not i am worrying more on this now,  just saw it was on my pennis. Then she removed condom by using wipes and gave one wipe to clean my pennis.  I wiped and washed with handwasher.After 7 Days from Exposure i am having pinching feeling in tip of my pennis for whole day and the same night got low grade fever for few hours.  Then Next Day i was getting burning sensation on tip of my peenis and foreskin after urination and found small single blister in my scrotum whis is not paining so far.  Worried about got some infection. I called her to ask how often she will go for medical test and she said No and disconnected the call.
1. What is the Chances of Condom might tore when she remove cover by teeth?
2. Chances of getting STD by oral,  because she put Condom to my pennnis by her mouth.
2. If Condom tore, then i have all possiblities of getting std including hiv right?
3. Pennis pinching and fever. and burning after urination terrified me for infection?
4.If Condom covers my pennis then what is possible of getting burning at Pennis head.  That means Condom might have damaged and my pennis head was exposed into vagina right?
5. Based on the situation and symptoms i am in risk of what  stds.
6. Have Penile burning after urinating and have small single blister/bump in testicals.
6. Its 10th day from exposure,  Still can i go for testing or wait for 2 weeks and then go.
I thought escorts will go regular medical test and will care their health to their knowledge. But when she said she didn't do any medical test then i assume that i am in very very high risk scenario.
I am married man from Asia have woderful wife and now staying alone in Europe for work and put my family situation to the worst. Before coming to europe i took complete test all are negative except Hsv1. I am thinking to visit doctor this week but Concern about testing period. Please provide your thoughts and help me about my risk.
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15249123 tn?1478652475
If i had to make a very educated guess here. I would bet that you have stress and are way over focusing on your genitals. With a condom on there is really no way for any infections to enter your urethra. Get a urine test for your peace of mind but I would be shocked if you have anything going on here.
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Hi All,
Thanks forYour comments and Support. Today went to GP,  one month from exposure.  I got four times pimple kind of blister(one or two)  back to back on both of my thighs. But each blister last only 2-3 Days.  My GP was not doubted about Herpes. Gave blood test for HIV, Hepatitis, VDRL and i asked for Herpes Blood Test and he said that Herpes dont have blood Test(old Doctor in small town)  Not much  updated about STD it seems. I asked for swap for the blister he said that cant take since Its Friday it will reach to Lab on Monday only so Swab wont be effective at that time like that.  Ask me to come for Next week for urethral Swab if i have another blister at that time i can ask for swab. In between occasionally i am feeling Metalic taste in Mouth.  Anybody felt for Genital Herpes?Your Comments are Appreciated.
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Follow up after you get proper testing, nothing you said sounds even remotely like herpes. Pimples on the legs isn't herpes
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Definitely i will update my test results(sure it will be positive at correct time) .  But that pimple had redbase and looks kind of blister for two days and gone with heal. Got two days(6th and 15th) Fever. Still having Urinary retention from 10 days now for 2 weeks which never felt before in my lifetime. Thanks for your time and responses.
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I also was positive I had herpes, I was also sure I had syphilas at some point, I was also sure I had hpv and my wife would later get cancer of the cervix and I'd be to blame. Until I really started to understand the chances and how stds are transmitted. Yes some risk does exist, but more often the rest is less then dying right now in a car wreck.
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Yeah,  you are right anxiety will take to extreme level i had the same 2 years back when i had sex first time (before marriage) i thougjt i learnt lession from there now mind gone mad and did a same mistake.  But this Urinary retention its very New to me in whole life,  actually i am extreme opposite guy,  go to pee very often with Good speed and amount. Now its opposite thats why i am scaring How can this be anxiety and its 5th Day. Anyway Really Thank you very much for your time and support Joe.
But Sadly Mine is Confirmed Joe.  Today Midnight again i got fever and could not sleep and got very tiny pimples on my thighs. I posted image on another herpes forum some them confirmed they got the similar thing and urinary retention and light fever.  Finally i got my consequences of my behaviour. Good Luck Joe for come out of anxeity and being support for the people.
Hi,

I had reddened skin areas on my thighs randomly doctors thought it was folliculitis or a bacterial infection when in fact it was herpes. It took 8 cultures all neg until I finally got a positive on on my thighs, herpes can show up anywhere on the body so saying a condom gives 100% protection is not very smart.

Clearly it won't cover 100% of your body - this is why men think they don't have herpes and infect their partners bc the penis doesn't show classical symptoms in 60% of men and can mistaken for abrasions, ingrown hairs, etc. Wait 6-8 weeks and go a herpes serology igg antibodies test. Thats the only way to know for sure and everyone should be doing as HSV 2 is a lifelong virus but only shows non severe symptoms in most men so without diligence many men have it not knowing or not believing they have it.

Thats enough time to show a positive (6-8wks). I was forced into an intimate encounter on June 10th which just involved skin rubbing and oral sex, I caught the virus on my thighs as well as orally but I have a bad immune system and it was apparent with the flu like symptoms and mouth ulceration - still doctors didn't believe me but it was in fact HSV 2.

Best of luck.
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Worst, I had unprotected oral sex performed on me by a drug using stripper. I contracted a nasty UTI (ngu) that later went to my prostate and from taking so much antibiotics I then got balantis which I'm still treating. On top of all of this I married at 18 (I'm now 37)the only girl I was ever with, I've never had to worry about std or about any crazy things like that, I've had so much anexity, all my tests came back negative. I still find my self suffering from focused anexity. Some days I feel discomfort in my anus, some urine retention, some days an itch. Trust me I know what you are going thru
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From the exposure you describe, a one time incident, covered activities, you have nothing to worry about. Your urine retention is focused anxiety. Even if her saliva got on you it takes rubbing in to transmit, and she would have to be shedding the virus with active sores. You are worrying for nothing. You do not have herpes
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Thanks for your time and comment Joe. Yeah i too try to beleive that my risk is low. But i dont think so My urinary retention is due to anxeity, because earlier i urge to go urine very often with Good speed.  Now i am not at all feel to go and if i go it is coming slow and less. If Urinary retention appears in herpes,  will it come along with sore/outbreak or alone can be symptom?  Thank You Very Much for Your time and Support Joe.  
You mentioned that,  its focus of anxeity and know,  have been there.
If You dont mind what was your experience and what happened? You are very Much apprecated.  Because of worry couldn't concentrate on anything and couldn't share to anybody. Again Thanks for Your time.
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Hi Gents, it seems urinary retention is very common in initial infection. I am facing for 5 days.  Your comments are very much appreciated please provide your opinion or experience. Thanks.
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Had Protected oral and Vagianl sex with Sex worker.  5-7 day occasionall penile tip burning only after urination,  single very tiny bump in scroutum no pain one day with white head then white head gone and bump still there very small hard to notice and single.  From Day 12 got urinary retention,  i am going to urinate time to time purposely and slow stream (Not Very Slow) could not realise whther my bladdwr is full or empty.  I have oral HSV 1 already.   Please provide your thoughts.
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Hi ,  with above symptoms for past two days (from 12th day from exposure,  earlier got penile burning after urinating occasionally for 3 days from 5th day from exposure) got urinary retention - My urine stream is slow and not emptying the bladder completely(Could not feel the bladder level either empty full). Just time to time purposly i am going urinate not getting automatic feel. But for my knowledge so far Not observable blisters may be i will get soon. Herpes will cause urinary retention as well?.  I am completely beleived i got herpes. Waiting for atleast 4 weeks to test all stds.  I spoiled my marriage life and my wife's life as well because of me worst behaviour.  I dont how to face this. Thanks for your comments.
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Without obvious active sores while not impossible transmission is very unlikely. Couples where one is infected and one is. It have a 3-5 percent change of getting it in a years time by just not having sex with active sores. You are safe, this is all focused anxiety. I know, I've been there
One is infected and one isn't I ment to say
Change=chance. Sorry I have large fingers lol
Further since you already have hsv1 even if she had a sore on her lip or mouth it's pretty much impossible for hsv1 to set up shop. You have antibodys at this point that surpress it, and hsv-1 doesn't prefer the gentitial
Thanks for the Comment Joe.  But Here my worru is HSV2. Yeah i read that mine is low risk.  But what i am talking about is what happening to me after exposure. . Initial Penile burning after urination and Now Urinary retention makes me to worry and beleived that got herpes 2. Any thoughts on it.  Thanks for the Support and Comments.
15249123 tn?1478652475
Hsv is more than unlikely. In fact i woukd bet against any std from this exposure.
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Thanks for confident comment Feeling. I wanted the same but this penile burning symptom is beating in my head
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That's not really a herpes symptom.
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Thanks for ur answer Feeling. But i didn't have anything like this before that week exposure.But Now i have it so something i got it from that exposure. Just i am panicly waiting to know what it is and its my worst behaviour in my Life and worth to Suffer but i am putting my family into this sad because of my ugly Mistake.
15249123 tn?1478652475
When a condom breaks they blow out. You would notice!

The condom offers excellent protection. You can test anytime after three days for bacterial std's with a simple urine test. The odds of hsv from this exposure is so incredibly small that i wouldn't be concerned.
You can have the bump looked at. That may ease your mind
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Thank You for the reaponse feeling.
Yeah i planning to go to Dr this week.  But burning after urination is bothering me.  It started after 5 days from exposure and getting often but not always.  Thata why i am concerning more about HSV.
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