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Skin to Skin contact

I went to a massage parlour approximately 20 days ago and I have concerns what occurred. There was skin to skin contact with our genitals. She got on top of me and attempted to rub her vagina against my penis, but as soon as I realize what she was trying to do, I stopped her immediately (approximately 10 seconds, maximum length 30 seconds of contact). I understand that it was superficial touching, but it is concerning. There was no penetration in this encounter. Also, there was lubrication, hence little friction

The symptoms I experienced as follow,

- The following day after the event, the itch which occurred for 6-7 days. I do not know whether this was because I constantly checked the pubic hair region often (5+ time a day), but it was in that region. The itch was only in the pubic area. When I didn't concentrate on it or when I didn't wear underwear, the itch was not noticeable and I didn't even realise it was there.
- White dots appeared approximately 11 days after, but 2 days later the simply healed. The spots did not look like blisters/herpes (based on google imaging), but it was quite alarming.

I went to the doctor for an examination (white spots occurred after the doctors appointment), but advised that it is highly unlikely to be herpes. He stated based on the situation/facts, he is 99% sure that I have not been infected.

The doctors I have been to are not keen on giving me a blood test.

Am I being paranoid? Or do I have legitimate reasons to be concerned?

If you provide a response, is it possible to provide your reasoning behind your answer?
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When I meant negative, antibodies were not detected
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Thank you for your support worryman297.

My blood test came back and came to give people an update if they are in the same situation.

Chlamydia - Negative
Gonorrheoeae - Negative
HSV 1 - Negative
HSV 2 - Negative
Syphilis - Negative
Hep B - Negative
Hep C - Negative
HIV - Negative



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At 8 weeks it would be a very good sign at 12 Weeks would be conclusive. Given the extreme low risk exposure and the lack of symptoms and a negative at 8-12 weeks is more than enough
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In order to put my mind in rest, would a blood test for hsv 2 in 3 months time would provide accurate results?
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Thanks for the feedback. It is still concerning, but I am slowly getting over it.

Anxiety and Stress is still getting the better of me.
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Honsetly this is very close no risk if no sores were present such brief encounter without sores and intercourse isnt a realistic. Even a single exposure is 1 in 10,000 this is even lower than that becuase there was barely any exposure. Promaty herpes wouldnt come and go in two days. Itching can happen and dies frequently due to genital focused anxiety and stress. The exact smae thing happened to me, I can relate there is no reason to test unless there is any more symptoms but got a few bucks to spare go ahead and get a negative at 12 weeks after exposure;))
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