I have HSV2, tested positive 10 years ago. I experienced lesions at the base of my spine (sacral herpes, I think this is called?), but have not had noticeable lesions for many years. I am seeing someone now, and he has tested negative for HSV2, but positive for HSV1 - which surprised him. He does not remember getting cold sores, but his ex-partner did, so it is highly possible he contracted it from her. He does get mouth ulcers occasionally, so this could be HSV1 symptoms, from what I understand, but at this point it is not confirmed if his HSV1 is oral or genital.
My questions are:
1. If I have HSV2, am I pretty much immune to and dont have to worry about acquiring HSV1 from him?
2. If I am at risk of acquiring HSV1 from him, and I get it orally, (assuming his is oral) is there then a risk of me giving it "back" to him via oral sex and he then gets it generally as well as orally?
3. If my HSV2 lesions have always been at base of spine and no-where near my "front parts", is there any risk of him acquiring HSV2 since there will be no skin-to-skin contact at the site of where the lesions have occurred? When there is asymptom