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Worried Sick Please Help Do I Have Herpes
Hi everyone, I'm new to the forum and I had an encounter about a week ago that has gotten me real worried.
I went to a strip club, met a dancer, and received a lap dance. The lap dance I received was not your usual run of the mill dance, which is the reason for my concern. The dancer started by applying hand-sanitizer on both me and herself, and then she got me down to my boxers. The dancer then went into my boxers grabbed my penis and adjusted it to ensure that it was pointing upwards.
The dancer then placed a wet nap over my boxers over the area of my erect penis (think placing a blanket over a pitched tent). She then proceeded to grind her vagina over my penis, which was covered by the wet nap and my boxers. While the dancer was grinding away she licked her breasts and at some moments rubber her vagina with her fingers. Midway through the dance, the dancer grabbed another wet nap and covered my actual penis with it . I can't recall if the dancer touched my penis with her hand or just covered it with the nap itself when she wrapped the wet nap around my penis. From there she proceeded to grind away.
Because the dancer was grinding so aggressively, I was worried that my penis might slip through the opening of my boxers. So I stopped her, and spent the rest of the time rubbing her clit and sucking on her boobs. When the session was over she gave me hand sanitizer to clean my hands. To be extra careful I stopped by the washroom and washed my hands again.
Given the circumstances above, what are the chances I may have contracted genital herpes? The club was very dark so I wasn't able to observer if she had any blisters or sores on her vagina. I guess I'm worried because there was that moment when the dancer rubbed her vagina and then moments afterwards she covered my penis with the wet nap. Let's say the dancer did have genital herpes and she touched my penis with her bare hand (which she had used previously to rub her vagina) am I at risk of contracting herpes? Thanks in advance for your advice.
I went to a strip club, met a dancer, and received a lap dance. The lap dance I received was not your usual run of the mill dance, which is the reason for my concern. The dancer started by applying hand-sanitizer on both me and herself, and then she got me down to my boxers. The dancer then went into my boxers grabbed my penis and adjusted it to ensure that it was pointing upwards.
The dancer then placed a wet nap over my boxers over the area of my erect penis (think placing a blanket over a pitched tent). She then proceeded to grind her vagina over my penis, which was covered by the wet nap and my boxers. While the dancer was grinding away she licked her breasts and at some moments rubber her vagina with her fingers. Midway through the dance, the dancer grabbed another wet nap and covered my actual penis with it . I can't recall if the dancer touched my penis with her hand or just covered it with the nap itself when she wrapped the wet nap around my penis. From there she proceeded to grind away.
Because the dancer was grinding so aggressively, I was worried that my penis might slip through the opening of my boxers. So I stopped her, and spent the rest of the time rubbing her clit and sucking on her boobs. When the session was over she gave me hand sanitizer to clean my hands. To be extra careful I stopped by the washroom and washed my hands again.
Given the circumstances above, what are the chances I may have contracted genital herpes? The club was very dark so I wasn't able to observer if she had any blisters or sores on her vagina. I guess I'm worried because there was that moment when the dancer rubbed her vagina and then moments afterwards she covered my penis with the wet nap. Let's say the dancer did have genital herpes and she touched my penis with her bare hand (which she had used previously to rub her vagina) am I at risk of contracting herpes? Thanks in advance for your advice.
Hi, the hand contact would not be any risk for herpes. Having your genitals covered would also prevent contracting herpes. Most of the time herpes is contracted through unprotected vaginal, anal or oral sex.
I forgot to mention that the dancer was fully nude throughout this whole ordeal, which is another reason why I'm so freaked out.
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