So stressed.

[KeepingFaith12]

On July 25th of this year I made a huge mistake and cheated on my wife...

It's been a month and I'm still extremely worried.

During my encounter i had unprotected oral sex from 2 women and protected vaginal sex with 1 of them... Oral 1 - 5 minutes each of them on me..

My experience was 1 week later I started to notice a small amount of clear to white discharge...

Following these symptoms i visited a planned parenthood and submitted urine to test for chlamydia and gonoreah..

The test came back negative i was given  zythromax 4 pills 1 dose... Roughly 1 week later the symptoms of discharge were gone...

Shortly after I noticed a rash form on the head of my penis which I then visited a urgent care for...

I submitted an additional urine sample which came back negative..

The nurse called the rash dermatitis possible from milking the discharge from my penis daily.

I was given a prescription a cream and a shot of rosephin and now the rash has subsided..

Still being stressed and worried after 5 wks i took a blood test for hiv and herpes 1 2 all tests came back negative..

I plan to retest in 3 months to recheck for herpes and hiv to ensure I am okay of these 2...  

I am not sure if my symptoms are psychological or if there is a real issue...

I have a tingle every so often in the end of my penis No pain. No apparent lesions as of yet. I sometimes feel as if I'm sore or itchy arround the upper part of my buttox and rectum... Possibly a little discomfort at the end of urination...

I am a wreck and just wish I had never made this horrible mistake.. Any insight would be appreciated..
My biggest worries are hsv2 and hiv...

:(

Please help..

[Fleetwood20]

The testing is accurate, you did not acquire herpes from the episode of concern.

[KeepingFaith12]

The rash was looked at by std clinic was determined to be skin irritation dermatitis was treated with steroid cream want away in a catch to 3 days was about a qrtr in size but small area that covered the head of my penis..

[Jjmar330]

How big was or is the rash?  Any irritation or discomfort?  Any other "symptoms"?

[KeepingFaith12]

Last question.. I tested just shy of 3 months. I have read 12 to 16 weeks is good to wait for these type of tests.. Should I retest at 16 weeks just to be sure?

[KeepingFaith12]

Okay. I will not trouble you any further. Thank you again for your responses to my questions.

Having sybacious cysts made this whole experience much more nerve racking. Thanks again.

[Fleetwood20]

The HSV2 test is extremely accurate and conclusive. You do not have genital herpes given the results and absence of any aligned symptoms.

[KeepingFaith12]

It has been roughly 12 weeks since my encounter. I have gone for my second hsv screening from lab test now.

The results were negative for hsv1 and 2.. I hate to take time away from anyone, but would you consider the igg herpes 2 test accurate??

1 thing I failed to mention is I suffer from sybacios cysts on the scrotum and I am constantly thinking anything and everything that pops up on my scrotum is herpes related...

Your insights would be appreciated.. Thanks in advanced.

[KeepingFaith12]

Thanks again

[Fleetwood20]

usually not if ever related to herpes...

[Fleetwood20]

An itchy butt is usually if ever related to herpes.

[KeepingFaith12]

What about my rectum itching should I have it checked.. No lesions or pain.. No anal play in my encounter.. I just can't stop obsessing over everything it seems..

Sorry to bother and thank you for your earlier response..

[KeepingFaith12]

I appreciate you reponding to my post..

I truely hope you are right and just again thank you for being here I really appreciate and find comfort in knowing I can come here to ask these questions..

Good luck and my prayers to all who come here to seek advice..

Thank you again.

[Fleetwood20]

No male has been infected with HIV from receiving oral sex. Transmission requires access to the blood stream which is rare in protected sex and even unprotected sex with a female.

There is also nothing suggesting a genital herpes infection. Your tests at 12 weeks will be conclusive and will be negative.