my gf and i have been together for a while now and she says that she has never had a cold sore, and about a month ago i did, and she said she didnt have a problem kissing me, so we did, while i had the cold sore. now here it is about a month later and i somehow have recieved another cold sore, she said she didnt mind kissing it, so we have been kissing for 2 days straight, but yesterday, she wanted me to perform oral sex on her, and i said not until my cold sore goes away, but she said it didnt matter. me not having much knowledge on this, i went ahead and did it. i tried to avoid touching my lips on her vagina, but im not sure if i did or not. later on, in the same day, about 6 hours later, she said she was having really bad headaches and she says that she has been feeling pretty sick. is this because of the HSV-1 genital, or what? i read somewhere that if someone has oral HSV-1, chances are that they cannot get genital HSV-1, but im not sure if it is 100% true. someone please help. i dont want to be freaking out about nothing or if there is something, i need to say something to her. im not sure yet on any of this, so some help, with FACTS would be really nice. thanks.