herpes negative test need answers

[me57]

Recently I, (female) was diagnosed with GH. I have never strayed.  My husband of over 9 years tested, and tested negative.  He has been cheating (by proof). I came up positive and one of his "women" came up positive. So far, she is the only one tested besides myself.  Is it possible that he has it, but he tested negative? It was via blood test. Is it also possible that  if he has not had an outbreak, the test would not show any antibodies in his blood, therefore negative?  Or if he had been taking any antiviral prior to taking the test, would it affect the test outcome? It showed next to nothing, like a .1.  Didn't make sense at all.  We have had unprotected sex for all those years and me have it and him not??  If his affliction was located for example, in his anus and masquarading as a bleeding fissure, therefore hard to diagnose?  If he had herpes menangitis, would he test positive as far as the blood? I need answers. Thanks.

[gracefromHHP]

and if you pm'd the results to me, as it says in the read before posting post, I don't respond to pm's in general and prefer all info to be posted here on the board.

[gracefromHHP]

How were you tested for herpes yourself?

grace

[me57]

Hi Grace
SUPLIMENTAL:  

His numbers were HSV1- 0.44 and HVS2 -0.10  He also  has a cough that he has had for YEARS and no one seems concerned.  He does have diverticulitis, which could mask the symptoms of his pain in his gut, but he also has pains in his legs, photophobia, problems with  difficulty urinating and constipation. Also, recently he had a penile clear discharge, but was "cleared" of any STD's. He has excess fatigue, which he has had for quite some time and finds it necessary to take a "nap" in the afternoon without failure, and he has had incontinence.

I have it and a woman that he messed around with has it.  We had unprotected sex for 9 years.  I don't think that he could not be harbouring somewhere undected in his body.  And from my understanding, there are others, many others.  Therefore, he has not only put my life at risk for contracting HIV because of his behavior, it is others as well.  I cannot believe that we could have relations for that many years and I be the only one saddled with this.  I have not been unfaithful.

[me57]

I gave you the information and you never got back for my soon to be ex-husband and you never got back with me. I NEVER had problems BEFORE i married this joker with any rashes, outbreaks or recurring "fever".  Dummy me, I thought I was menapausal having hot flashes.  Since I have been taking the antiviral, since I found out, I have had no more "hot flashes".

Here are the articles I told you about.

http://www.ihmf.org/journal/download/Herpes%2014.2%20Marudanayagam.pdf

This one DID NOT show up in the blood.  My husband bleeds from the rectum with no reason. In his report, the doctor said it looked like little cuts. He has been tested for polyps, cancer, and hemmoroids. Recently he had problems with his eyes being very red for no reason and photophobia.  It DOES place reasonable doubt that he could be herpes free and carry the disease.

http://www.ihmf.org/journal/download/81wilkinson(4)vol84.pdf

Read what this says about partners perspective.

Please read these and let me know your thoughts.

[gracefromHHP]

can you get his blood test results and your own to post here for me? All I need are the numeric results - ie hsv1 igg 4.5 and hsv2 igg .34 or whatever they are.

grace