herpes questions

[robertr]

i may have contracted herpes. i am going in for further tests but based on the info of drs in the std forum and early testingso sounds like a real possibility.

with herpes
1- is kissing with tongue, my hand touching her vagina or me giving her oral safe.
2 - how do i know when it is transferable to her?
3 - has anyone broke the news to a wife after many years of marriage?

thank you to all.

[robertr]

i posted on the experts forum and he gave me some valuable answers and it looks like i might have herpes but he told me to wait till i get results before commenting back there so i hope and pray youll help me here till then.

i'm going back to my doc today. he said hell do some further testing.
the experts forum told me to get " preferably a PCR test, but at least a culture". i dont think he realized at then time to rash started a few days earlier.

my question, since its about 5-7 days since pimples started and hurting is decreasing, will this test be accurate?

also my doctor said that my igg test which was taken on day 5 was positive initially but the do further examing it and it became negative. is that normal?? wht can i ask him about this?

i have my appointment in 1 hours. please help.

[gracefromHHP]

you have a post on the std experts forum, follow up there and get your money's worth :)