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which one give it to the other?

HI

My gf and I both developed simptoms of  herpes back in april of this year. The last time we had sex was on 3-20 and 3-21 . We saparated the next week due a disagreement and had no contact untill a week ago. I first noticed my simptoms on 4-16 which consisted of two blisteres on the end of my penis.I visit my doc on the 4-21 which at that time he did not think it was herpes and did not test for it!
Everything was fine until 5-25 when i had another ob and returned to the doc.I then had a blood and culture test for HVS1 and HVS2 .My results for the blood test (igg) came back pos for hvs1 with a reading of 3.65,  and neg for hvs 2 with a reading of .91. The culture was pos for hvs 2. My doc contacted someone he called a specialist and determand that he was 99% sure this was a new infection.
Now for my gf ! Her simptoms started around  the same time i dont exactly what day but within aweek of each other on my first ob in april.They consisted of painful burning and itching which developed into blisters. So we were both broken out around the third week in april within a week of each other.  At that time she had a blood test for hvs1 and hvs2(she had no culture performed) only blood, her results were neg for hvs1 with a reading of .04.She tested pos for hvs2 with a reading of 2.25  She says shes never had any simptoms what so ever and the same goes for me. I basically want an honest opinion as to who most likely brought  this into the relationship.







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yeah, that would have shown up in your bloodwork by then...i'm sorry man.
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No , The last time i  had sex with a different person was the month of aug the year before with a previous gf of three month somewhat 7 month ago.  Now if this had come from this relationhip with no simptoms at all!! would or would it not show up in my blood work?  
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Honest Opinion: Have you had sex with anyone esle in the March time period? If no, and everything you say here is totally accurate, then it would suggest that she did. If you had sex with anyone else near that time (Dec,Jan,Feb,Mar), then it could have been either of you.
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