Hello everyone. I need some advice.
Basically, I have known I have had a genital wart since 2012. I have been treated about 4 or 5 times for them, and every time I go, I was always told this is not a big deal, and once they were cleared, I could have sex again seemingly without hurting anyone.
I had a girlfriend who ended up having herpes (unrelated) we have 0% knowledge as to how this happened, since none of our previous partners show any symptoms. We found out about this early on.
I had never mentioned the wart removal because I thought I was ok, but when I found one, I let her know. She was hurt, but continued to be with me (I hope not because of the herpes) A month later we broke up due to her wanting to be with another and I am assuming the STI's.
She now hates me and believe I intentially infected her with both warts and herpes. I never knew anything about the HSV1 at all, and yes I did know about the past warts. My problem comes from this. I know I had no malicious intent with the warts, and there is a lot of contradictary information out there. I don't know what to do, because it seems I made a mistake. I don't want her to hurt, and I don't want her to hate me. I realize we are no longer together and I have no intention of trying to be with her again, but she was an important person to me, and I feel terrible.
I have no idea how the herpes virus came to infect us, and the only part of this relationship I feel bad about (despite the way she left) after researching more is this HPV issue. What can I do? I'm confused and hurt.