Have you found any solutions? My 5 year old boy is under drs care and takes meds for bi polar, occd, hyperactivity,and moderate autism, but his meanness, hitting, hating, biting is all directed to me. I have tried everything. Everyone says I am just "too easy on him", but I swear I could kill him with spankings and tie him in his room forever and it would still be the same. He has, right before I am to pick him up from school, told his teacher "he is going to tell me he hates me when I get there".
Anyone got any info that helps. I feel so bad, guilty and there seems to be a fine line between love and hate. I would never hurt him, but there are many many times I am frustrated enough to consider letting his father have full custody (I forgot to say my son is from divorced parents)