I has a hysterectomy in 2013. I am starting to be very emotional and having hot flashes. I still have my ovaries. My problem is I just found out that my husband could possibly be bi polar. If it turns out that he is bi polar and I am going through menopause I don't know how we are going to be there for one another. I am really trying and I just find myself crying, or being very angry. Somebody please help me.