Hello everyone, I'm a 19yr old male. I'm new to this community and I have a problem for like 4 years now (it started soon as I turned 15) and after all the help I looked for, nothing helped. So, as I said in the title, my problem is this annoying frequent urination.
What makes it annoying: the combination with "shy kidneys" (can't go if people are around the bathroom), anxiety, sometimes stabbing pain (9/10 in severity, like it usually stops my breathing) and the most annoying part it happens in public. It does happen at home as well and just as often but it doesn't bother me since I'm home.
Ok, so the reasons I think that might cause this: 1. I started to drink soda drinks since I was 3yrs old and in large quantities, usually Coke/Pepsi/ and recently Energy Drinks. 2. Excesive masturbation since the age of 11 (like 3 times a day but reduced the amount to like 2 per week when I was like 16yrs old). 3. Stress in situations where it would be awkward to go to the toilet (especially in an often manner) or where you can't go at all.
What I tried before to stop this problem (but only had short results or none): teas (sometimes it helped, but I think it was mostly placebo); no-masturbation (it helps for a short period of time, but after a few days the problem reappears and after it does, most of the times, masturbation helped to reduce the frequency); sex also helped in 70% of the times;
Yes I visited a fair amount of urologists, but none of them found any effective way to cure this or an exact diagnose.
Diagnoses: UTI (took the treatment strictly, didn't work); Kidney sand(? - don't know for sure if thats the English term, but you get the idea); the treatment for it helped for a while but still no permanent effect and can't remember what I took either); psychological induced problem (which is only 30% accurate since I also have this problem at home where I don't even bother realizing nor remembering when I go; also have pains).
And finally, symptoms: frequent urination (no night urination, even if I feel that my bladder is full, if I fall asleep I won't wake up until I'm supposed to); sometimes pain when I urinate (from mild to severe burning pain); shakes, nausea, cold body temperature and my face gets pale (but I guess those are caused by the Anxiety attacks cause they happen only when I'm in public and can't normally go); mild to severe kidney pains, usually severe as I said before, it stops my breathing.
Oh and also, I did an STD test and it came out negative (its normal since I use protection) but I don't think its relevant since the problem occurred before my first sexual act.
Please, if someone know any solution to this problem tell me, I don't know what else to do and its ruining my life...