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Don’t know what’s going on ? any advice

Hi so I’m a straight teenage male, and about last week I engaged in letting a girl I casually mess around with do oral sex on me unprotected but also had protected sex and it’s been almost a full week and a few days now from when she did it, so recently I been having pain in my groin area , mostly when I’m laying down or sitting I feel the pain , but when I’m standing I don’t feel it , I haven’t noticed any discharge or painful burning since then as well , and just don’t know how tricky diseases are if I am infected from that oral exposure , I also lift weights a lot as well and helped my brother move out his place a few days after so I’m just not sure where the pains coming from , I plan on getting tested for insurance . Any advice would help though if you guys think it’s nothing to be worried about
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You really don't need to get tested.  You used protection and oral sex isn't really much of a risk and no risk at all for HIV.  As for your groin pain, that's not really indicative of getting something from sex.  Sometimes when a man is hard for a long time you can get some groin pain.  It goes away.  And the other things you do might have caused some strain.  It's always up to you whatever you want, if a doctor will give it to you, but what you did is pretty safe.  As for using a condom for oral, you can, but neither of you will like it.  Latex isn't the safest thing to be putting in one's mouth either.  But there was a time when this was recommended early in the HIV epidemic, but not much anymore.  Yeah, it's possible to get something, but it's possible to get a lot of things from sex, including the flu and covid.  There's no perfect world out there that's 100% safe but I don't think this is something you should spend time worrying about.  So you have two opinions, and you can do some homework and then make your decision.  Peace.
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Thank you ! I found out groin Pain by itself isn’t an indicator as well so I should be fine hopefully
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I think you're sore because you helped your brother move. Are you saying you had intercourse after oral sex and used a condom during that time? That's very smart of you to do. I would recommend using a condom during oral sex too because if a girl, or a guy, has oral herpes it can be transmitted through any kind of oral sex. Chances are you don't have it because you would have probably noticed mouth sores at some point if you've known this girl for awhile. It's smart to be tested, just in case. But please remember what I said. Use a condom during oral sex and intercourse every single time. I think your test will come back just fine.
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Yess I used protection right after ! And thank you will do! I get tested next week so I just gotta put up with this until then lol!
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