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Erectile disfunction

Im a 65 year old male with diabetes and have erectile dysfunction I have a female doctor who is also a lesbian . She is a great doctor but I am embarrassed to ask for help  I also have a heart doctor that I have to see next week. Should I speak to him about my situation?  Will Viagra work for someone that has artery disease?? What can I expect. ? I was married for 33 years and divorced for 12 years I don't want to die alone I have a lady friend but also this problem. Help please.
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oh. your condition is quit complicated. i think it is normal for you to have decreased Erectile disfunction at your age. it is better if you can provide me more information. you can contact me via email:***@****
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1.  Whether or not your doctor is male or female, lesbian, gay or straight, he or she has heard a patient tell of erectile dysfunction every week of practice, probably.  You will not overwhelm your doctor with the appalling embarrassment of your question.  This is so normal as to be unexceptional.

2.  If you cannot bring yourself to talk about it, ask for a referral to a urologist or a male doctor.

3.  By all means talk to your heart doctor.  He or she will have gotten this question all the time since Viagra is part of the discussion.

4.  You will not die alone if you do not want to.  Many lady friends past age 50 have boyfriends who are not John Holmes, and they don't mind.  There is always hands, "toys," and mouths even if you never take Viagra and never get an erection.  A woman who is unwilling to have a relationship because the sex needs to be a little more creative is no woman to have as a lady friend, even if you did not have erectile dysfunction.  Please don't sell yourself short.  The same way a woman is more than a vagina, a man is much, much more than a penis.

I saw a picture on the Internet of a tough-looking head-shaved, bearded guy painting his little daughter's fingernails with fingernail paint.  his wife had captioned the picture, "One of the many, many reason why I love him."  That was just so dead right.  We don't love a man for whether he has a big boner in the sack.  We love him for his certainty that he is a good man that overflows into his generous and strong actions.
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