Perineal muscle is in between legs. A small treangular muscle beteen anus and scrotum( in female vagoma; lips) while masterbating when you are hot dip your finger in the center of the perinium and massage in clock wise or counter clock wise manner or thrust your finger inside the muscle.This will help you to ejeculate. You can use a corner of a small table for these thrusts.
i have exactly the same problem I have never consiously ejaculated. I think I am going to kill myself because I can't bear the frustration any more.
try using a hand vibrator...the ones that you can buy at a store that you can use on a sore back.
hey try using porn movies and lube it helps alot and when looking for a porno find a movie that really stands out and turns you on like if there is a girl who you find really attractive in it and focus on what you are doing and dont go for so long that you hurt the skin that really hurts! do you have a partner? if you do try some new stuff with them or make your own movie with them. my problem was i couldent *** with a partner come to find out it was all mental for me because i didnt really care about the person i was with but that has changed now any other info on your situation just send it to me in my inbox or email me at ***@**** best of luck to ya bro!
Search Kegel Ecercises. You may get some idea how to deal with this prrovl.em of yours.