erectile disfunction..

[scooter29w03]

Unless I look at porn or rub my penis, I am unable to get an erection.. My body's saying ya, like if I were to have intercourse or especially oral sex I'd ejaculate instantaneously... It feels like this all day long.. I love the feeling but I get irritable  if I am unable to release that throbbing feeling. I can even have a half hard on, that's like steal and my issue is I pre-*** all day long.. Don't know what to do....??


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[scooter29w03]

My penis tlking

[NOHARD]

Hi Scooter, the last bit of you reply, sorry but got me lost, seems like your wife wrote a part of it, or is it me.
I can't ever know what he's feeling or when he wants to work when I'm ready.. There are times when I'm not thinking sexually and not be able to control my arousal or erection, which is embarrassing some times in public.
Its this last piece, or is this your penis talking.
Help

[scooter29w03]

The thing is, I don't really look at porn often.   Maybe  every  once  in  a   while,(Couple times a yr.), with my wife.. I can get an erection if it's with my wife, but I only feel the sensation of arousal I guess is a better way to put it, during the day or if I am sexually frustrated  because we don't have the opportunity during the day. I just can't Handel that intense feeling of arousal and not doing anything with it.. I know when we have times of when we don't make love I want to look at porn just to feel aroused, because I get depressed in the winter and anxiety, and that's when I cannot get an erection during the day or that aroused  sensation even if my wife is " Doing things to arouse me, like even something I like when she does it that she doesn't do all that often, but go seriously crazy over otherwise if u know what I am saying.. But there are times when I can think about her doing that to me and watching her do it and I'll have Pre-*** not too long after and only feel a little erect, but aroused.. I can't ever know what he's feeling or when he wants to work when I'm ready.. There are times when I'm not thinking sexually and not be able to control my arousal or erection, which is embarrassing some times in public... Any more advise on communication with my penis I guess I need to work on... Thx for ur other comments too...

[Grinkat]

It sounds to me like you've desensitized yourself and nothing really satisfies you the way it used to. It is a common psychological event, my advice is simple. Don't worry on looking at porn or anything and try not to think of sex so much. The more you think on something the less sensational the outlook is. I've done the same thing to myself countless times, I get desensitized and then find more extreme things later on. It got to the point where I almost started watching snuff films. It is just that you need to find a better way to occupy your time and try a few squats and drink green tea. Should open blood flow normally again. But if you're not using it for anything aside your own hand and maybe lube. You should not worry so much. When it's time you will be ready. But far as the pre-ejaculation it is normal for some. Just stay hydrated and your pressure should build so you do not.