Not sure what you're truly asking about. Some people like sex with strangers. Some like it with people they have an attachment with. Some like both. Some like neither. We're all pretty individual in this. It is concerning if you're doing this at 16, though. That's pretty young to be that sexually active with a lot of different men, but that too is very individual, our sex drives come at different ages. I grew up in the 60's and there was a lot of casual sex going on and also a lot of very young sex going on. Some liked being in love and some just liked the attention and some just liked the feeling. We all grew up and got old and got married, so don't fret. At your age, the chances of any relationship lasting all that long is pretty slim, people change fast, and if you're going through a period where you love the attention you get by someone wanting to sleep with you. you're probably not someone who would make a good partner right now, but you won't be like this forever most likely. And as the above says, at some point, when you're older, you'll meet someone who you want to make a relationship with. In the meantime, have fun but be safe. I don't know how in the covid era you can feel safe having sex with a lot of random people, but it's your life, not ours. But love, it comes, and often it also goes. Peace.
You can live without love in your life. I have done it for 69 years, but mine problem is more mental issues. Just keep on living your life, keep on enjoying sex, just make sure you use protection, STD or pregnancy can mess up your life. Continue your education so you can get a good job and find other interests. Maybe later you can get some counseling to help you.
Girls these days seem so much more sexual, and attractive than I remember when I was that age. Back in the early 60's holding hands and maybe kissing was all you could get out of them and most seemed 'looks challenged'. Getting any of them to 'put out' was a fantasy, and rarely happened. It sucked.
I can see why older men want to have sex with you, you are young, sexy and willing. It seems like older women are just to stuffy and choosy who they want to mate with so they put themselves out of the sexual market. Not to mention most of the older women have way to much baggage, so a young 16 year old seems one hell of a lot better choice. Just don't get the guy in trouble, unfortunately our antiquated laws make having sex with someone your age is against the law.
Back when I was in my very early 20's I had a nonsexual relationship with a 15 year old, if she hadn't lived a 100 miles away I think it would have become sexual. I met my first wife when she was 16. We got married when she was 17. Later on when I was 42 I had a relationship with a 19 year old. The reason I liked her was she was not stuck in the 60's and 70's like all the women my age, and had little baggage.
Not wanting to bore you with my experiences, but wanted to let you know that love is possible, you just have to be ready for it. Right now you are having to much fun to settle down with one person so keep on doing what you are doing and enjoy it. Good luck
Fear of intimacy could be the reason, is there a point partway into any relationship where you start to experience feelings of panic and either sabotage the connection or just leave?
Love cannot develop unless we trust others enough to show them our weak side and our worries.
Enjoy your life you will meet someone you will fall in love and goes towards him just pray he will feel the seem. so don't take tension and enjoy your life you will fall for someone.
Thanks and have a great life.