so i guess i'm looking to understand mid life crisis. from a man's point of view. i'm female and i was with the my boyfriend for ten years. we got engaged two years into the relationship and we just never got married, he's ten years older than me. i'm 29 now, and he's 40. right around his 40th birthday this year, he disappeared, said he was meeting a friend at the airport, turned his phone off and i didn't see him for days. he even missed the birthday dinner i had planned on his birthday. after his little disappearance he was moody, fussy, yelling at me all the time, then all of a sudden told me to "get the f*ck out" of the house we shared and told me he was taking a two week vacation to florida and then probably moving there. he chased me out of our house, i'm devastated and he won't talk to me at all. said i wouldn't understand and to me it's just so cold hearted, i gave this person ten years of my life and they can just throw me away like a sack of garbage. please help me understand. i'm so devastated, it would have almost been easier if the person just died instead of torturing me this way.
this is the ultimate betrayal for me. i'm heartbroken.