Desperate for answers!

[RaeLynnHolmes]

So i had a miscarriage on November 9th of 2012. Well now here i am pregnant again (4 weeks and 3 days) well.. im kind of unsure about what my pdds are to have another... i obviously wanna do everything in my power to avoid it... but i feel like all im doing is stressing myself out thinking about losing another baby... please help!

[RaeLynnHolmes]

Ahhh!! Thank you guys so much:))) it helps to have people who have gone through similiar situations!!

[doeburns]

I had a missed misscarriage and then later gave birth to a healthy baby. Once you reach about 10 weeks rent a doppler from heartbeaysayhome.com.  this really helped easey mind :)

[TIddums]

It's a terrible thing to go through and your worry is understandable. My advise it to try relaxation techniques, and I know it's easier said than done, but you have to remember just because it happened once does not mean it will happen a 2nd time. If you haven't long come off birth control though, it may have been just too soon for the lining to support pregnancy the 1st time, but a month later gives it plenty of time to do what it needs to do, so you chances of it happening again is lower. If you haven't come of birth control, just remember it was something to happen for a unknown reason and the chance of this happening again is like any odds in life. Just think how many times life could be took away from any of us, it's the same, so try not to worry.

[MableMouse]

I know completely how you feel. I had a miscarriage last year in August and decided to TTC right away. I became pregnant again in January. I flipped out and was terrified, about everything, I even spotted at six weeks and thought I was miscarrying again. It was scary but all is well and now I'm 17w+4ds pregnant with a healthy little one. I know it's hard not to worry but it's better for the baby if you don't. The day I found out I was pregnant I started a pregnancy journal, maybe you should try that? It feels good to write your feelings/fears down on paper. Btw, just because you have had one miscarriage it doesn't make you anymore likely to have a second one. After I lost my baby I found out that about 20% of all women miscarry their first child. I know that probably doesn't seem all that comforting but it was for me. Chin up love, there are amazing things happening inside you! I hope this helped, feel free to message me anytime.(:xx