I have a Dr apt. the first week of January, so if AF hasn't returned by then I guess I'll find out what to do then.
My plans are very hopeful, but I hope I'm not setting myself up for disapointment. As soon as my first AF arrives we will try on my O of that cycle, so hopefuly well be doing the BD around xmas.
Thanks to all for the babydust and encouraging words!
Consider yourself added to the list.
Yes, I'll start a new post soon, but honestly it probably won't be until this weekend. If anybody else wants to, please feel free :) I'm super busy at work so I won't be around much for a while.
I got a +OPK yesterday, but wouldn't you know it, DH was tired and went to bed super early :( Oh well, there is still tonight.
SSBD to everybody and sorry I don't have time to leave more individual comments . . .
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Sorry for your loss.
Most doctors say it takes 4-8weeks for your AF to return. I have met women on here who said it took them 90 days, every woman body is different. If your cycle dont return in 8 weeks you might want to call your doctor to let them no. Also, you AF returns after your hcg levels have returned to zero, most drs monitor your levels once a week. I had blood drawn once a week until i got to 5 which is also considered a non-pregnant state
I had a missed m/c in june, i was suppose to be 10w 3days but u/s showed i was 10w 1day. I new something was wrong the day i woke up so i went to er to have u/s and there was no cardiac activity.
Unless you actually get the tissue tested from the fetus, the only answers doctors will say is that it must of been abnormal chromosones. Which i assume they got that from research, when they do test women, the majority of reasons are abnormal chromsones. I was a little upset that i didnt have the fetus tested, it s-ucks to really not no the true reason. Even if it was a chromosone problem, i wouldve liked to still no.
Like you, i had plans for my baby too, i wouldve been having my baby shower thanksgiving weekend being my granny visits from california every thanksgiving and all the family would be here. I was so looking forward to having the baby in jan 5th. I have been ttc since august(got first cycle 34 days after d&c) and nothing yet.
Welcome aboard, so what are your plans?
Yes Omg I had to call on Fri and speak to the dr on call cause the cramps were so intense. I was in panic mode. I had blood work the day before numbers were fine had them taken again on monday and they went up four hundred points. I'm now having cramps every tine I need to pee. I looked at my hpt I took last week and my line wasn't wicked dark. Please don't panic you will be okay! I'm prolly cramping from getting so big so fast. I look like I'm 5 mos and I'm only 5 weeks. Yikes. Were you crampy when you had periods I had them so bad I had to take motrin 800. I'm really not suprised I'm having cramping!! Good luck my friend with your blood work. Let me know I will be thinking about you!!!!!
Welcome! This is a whonderful community all of the women on here are great and all very supportive and warm and very welcoming. Bam is the commander in chief on the cycle buddies so I'm sure when she reads your info she will add you. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I too had a M/C naturally though back in sept so for me this forum really helped me at a time where I was so desperate for closure. We all have something in common on here that is dealing with the pain of M/C and the desire to have a child.
Best of luck to you and lots of Baby dust too!!!!
Ps If you go to google and type in conception abbrevs you can find them!!!