i have gone through two it is hard but im not sure about the forum thing bc this is only my second day on this but if you would like to talk to me you can message or email me
Hi ladies. I haven't found no forum about that, but what I do is I talk to ladies thru messages..is private. I know what you mean about someone that does understand, and not to scare anyone...If you would like...when you post, just add a type of warning or something...
I think this forum and the pregnancy and fertility forums are filled with many women that have had m/c and are trying again to get pregnant or are pregnant again. I don't think that you will scare anyone. However, the Month to month babies forum, don't go there, you might freak some people out.
We are all in the same boat with you, feelings and pains and joys and all.
You can click on health topics or forums and pick misscarriages, you will find alot of questions regarding m/c's, you can also post a question and people usually respond back with there experience or from what their doctor has told them. I am so sorry for you loss. I just turned 32 june 10th and had a missed m/c on june 12th, i new when i woke up thursday something was not right, Im a nurse and i am very intune with my body. I went to er to get ultrasound, no heartbeat, u/s measured 10 weeks, i was 10w and 3 days on the 12th, so to myself i was like what did i do 3 days ago to cause this, because on my bday i rested and read to the baby. I had d&c on tuesday, i didnt wana walk around knowing my baby was dead inside of me waiting for it to happen naturally. But i still had what felt like to me was contractions on saturday n sunday that lasted an hour n half each day where i passed large blood clot, to myself i was liike what was the d&c for if i was gona go threw this awful pain also. I was so angry, all the opposite emotions of joy, happiness, brite furture etc. To make it worse is that my fiance lives in GA, when he got out the service he went to school there, he finishes in october, the plan was for me to move there in may when i had graduated, but because i got preggo, it was unexpected we decided to stay here in wisconsin for 2 years then we would relocate, since all of my family was here. I basicly have two homes, im there every month for 2 or 3 weeks, and he comes here every other month during his break for school, well may was the first time he saw me preggo, he gave for my graudation, he was scheduled to come back june 24th til july 30th wich my second ob appointment was on the 26th and he was excited. Well i had to call him and tell him our baby died, this was his first child, i have a 12yr old boy who will be 13 this month. He could not even be here with me in the beggining while i was going threw this. I am still greiving trying to find some peace and it still seems as if i cant. I had 2week checkup yesterday, dr said after first cycle we could try again, but i am so terrified of this happening again i dont think i can take it emotionally.