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623156 tn?1322865851

Some food for thought!

As most of you know I have had a complicated pg and have suffered many m/cs. My dh and I seperated for a short time last yr. It all caught up to him and that piled with his depression etc. We got back together shortly after but I asked of him if he would go to marital counseling with me. It's been almost 2 mos and we are making huge progress. We were watching Dr. Phil the other day and there was a married couple on there young like us and just fighting and our of control etc. At the end of the show he mentioned going to Dr.Phil.com and trying out his 14 day marital to do list so to speak. My dh said let't try it just to see what he asks of couples to do. My dh and I have really had many breakthroughs in our marriage but last night was just mind blowing. I have never felt closer to him than I did last night. It took total about 20 mins and it was amazing. Now mind you my dh is a Sgt in the United States Army and even he could not believe how good it felt after. It was so intimate and something for just the 2 of us. I hope you all try it out my dh and I no longer have the problems we did but we look at it as it can only better us. All of us on here have had a m/c and I'm sure in one way or another it has affected our marriages. If any of you decide to try it out tonight let me know what you think. In my opinion it was great and I can't wait for tonights agenda!
Hugs,
AP
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623156 tn?1322865851
Nunu and Lori-- Thank you. It's amazing this agenda dr phil has you should check it out it's really cool. I can't wait for tonight's agenda. Again dh and I don't really need it but we look at it as more the merrier in terms of tools to use in our  marriage. After today's dr's app we will be glad we did it! Thanks again!

Hugs,
AP
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693804 tn?1304720474
I'm happy to hear that things are going well for you and your DH. It's strange how sometimes you think that a tragic event should bring you closer and instead it pushes you apart. I wish you all the best.

          Lori
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628735 tn?1273875777
I am glad it helped.
seen you mentioned Dr Phill...  DH and I were invited on the show because of my crazy in-laws. We ended up declining because by that time things had settled down some and we thought it would just start up there cr*p again.
I am glad that things are getting better with you DH!
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