What to try again after miscarriage…

[annasw]

I have PCOS and my husband and I have tried to get pregnant for the last year and a half. I finally go pregnant. I took a home test to find out. I figured I was about 4 weeks along, counting by my last period and my ovulation tracking. Anyway I started spotting sometime in to my fifth week, went to the doctors and they told me my HCG levels were great and I shouldn’t worry. Nevertheless we scheduled an ultrasound and the pregnancy could not be found  We were devastated and the doctors were baffled because my levels kept on rising. I was kept at the hospital and sure enough my levels rose but not baby after doing another u/s. The doctor had told me at that point that I was having a miscarriage but had no clue where my pregnancy was! It was a rough couple days! I kept on praying they will find it and all will be well. The doc finally ordered a laproscopic surgery and found the pregnancy in my right tube and it was extracted. Good news is that I can get pregnant again as my left tube is in good shape. My question is, is it ok to start trying again? My doc said to wait a 6-8 weeks but I don’t want to! Am I being selfish? My feel great and feel sexually active and want to try again and so does my partner. I just checked and it looks like I am ovulating. Has anyone has this experience with getting pregnant after a miscarriage? The other reason I am so not willing to wait is because I have PCOS and I have a hard time ovulating and now I am! Advice anyone?

[sakazmi]

hi.. i would rather say that you should wait. the reason why doctor told you to do that is you just had a ovary removed and i know your body needs plenty of rest to recover it self. I have PCOS myself i had a mc in december 12. but it was normal pregnancy. i have problem ovulating for that i am taking Clomid. i would say ask your doctor to give you clomid to induce ovulation if you are worried about ovulation. PCOS is not a disease its just extra to handle. if you going to be selfish if something goes wrong with you. you will end up blaming yourself which is more stressing. i would say relax chill out. speak to your doctor ask him if he can prescribe you with clomid so after 6-8weeks if you want to try you can start trying. :)

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[kulsoom]

Yes u may try right away gap is not necessary if u feel ok go ahead.best wishes