I feel very badly for your other child that would like you to remain a family. As it sounds like you were headed for divorce any way and your wife feared being alone with TWO young kids, SHE was in a very difficult spot. I'm glad she has her parents to lean on. Peace to all but especially your young son.
I am so sorry for what you are going through. I hope she did it out of fear of making matters worse, and not to hurt you. I hope you both find peace, and happiness
Yes, I finally got it out of her on Friday after two weeks of blaming me for a miscarriage that didn't happen! I confronted her about aspects of her story that had not only changed but made ZERO sense from any point of view.
The doctor has signed me off with stress for two weeks and naturally I will now be seeking a divorce in due time.
Terrible situation that I hope none of you ever find yourselves in.
She had an abortion. The doctor would t say it was stress the doctor would reassure that she or anyone else did anything to cause the miscarriage it just happens and when it does the doctor doesn't schedule a d&c the next day first they let u have it naturally then if it does not pass u have a pre-op appointment then the surgery or since she was 7wks she had to option to take the abortion pill which induces a miscarriage. Maybe she messed around during that time and was scared it wasn't urs. Maybe I shouldn't say that but it all sounds really sketch on her part.
Show her that u still love her and u will still be ther she may not wana talk about it yet cause it's still a raw subject and she can get her point across in a way u understand being a woman is scary sometimes bringing a child into the world even scaryer special if she knew the current suituation was not idea
I don't know about your country but in nz it takes longer that's two days to get a abortion u have to see a counceller first as well as talk to ur gp stress can cause a misscarge easy at the first stage of pregnancy you did say you allready hav a #young child #currently umployed and have financial troubles/ Worries ( as a female that stresses me a lot !!! ) and u said you were also going thru a tough period I can fully see how she could of miscarried but I can also see your point of view try sitting down and exsplane to her you feel this aY and tell her WHY !! If u really want to know more about the doctors ask her in the kindest way possible show her u care and l
I had a recent miscarriage at 7 weeks pregnant. My doctor gave me three options: take medicine to pass the tissues, D&C to scrape out the tissues or wait for a natural miscarriage. Maybe your wife took the D&C option? Stress can cause a miscarriage.
I chose natural miscarriage because i'm afraid of surgery (never had one). Thought I had acupuncture treatment the next day after my dr said I will miscarry. Which the acupuncture does help, I was able to pass the tissues the next day.
I don't know whether your wife had a miscarriage or abortion but it sounds like you lose trust in her? I would be super stress with her situation too.
Good luck to the problems you too are having.
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I had a miscarriage in my 1st trimester. I went to hospital for the scan which confirmed the pregnancy had 'ended' and had a D&C the next day. So its not that unusual in your wife's case.
Gulp, I have to agree. Abortion.
I'm sorry but I think she has an abortion
Hi. What I can say is about statistics, I had a recent miscarriage, I was 8 weeks pregnant but baby stopped developing at week 6. My doctor told me it is very common early miscarriage (first trimester). The major cause is a chromosome disorder. About 20 to 30 % pregnancies women have miscarriage on first trimester. Many women do not even knew they are pregnant, since it happens before they notice they are pregnant. In my case, my doctor want to wait for a natural miscarriage, I have being waiting for two months, and it did not happend, so I need to have a D&C (Dilation and curettage) - the "operation" your wife had.
Many doctors do not wait for natural miscarriage, and go direct to D&C, maybe it is your wife case (in my country its is common) . So please, try to trust your wife, I think its the better you can do.