im not coping :'-(

[mum2_2]

Hi,i just came here because i need to talk.im feelin so alone.i found out on 10/02 @ my 12 week scan my baby had no heart beat.i had a d&c on 15/02.i felt ok afterwards.but the last 24hrs have not been good.i feel like my world is falling apart.i just dnt no how to go on......  :'-(

[beautifulmum]

hey there,

I just wanted to say i too know what you are going through only 12 days ago i had to give birth to my baby i was 20 weeks pregnant and they found out his heart stopped beating. Trust me when i say just go day by day and talk about it it does help.  I am dealing with loss of pregnancy and the only son i never thought i would have i come from all girls i have 2 daughters and never thought it would be a boy, it ***** cause that is not how i should have found out what he was. but i have hope now that i hope to go on with my angel in heaven and have him a little brother.
If you wanna chat please leave me a mesg.

[greatexpectations_4_2012]

I had a d&c Feb. 6th. I know exactly where you are coming from. I come from a large and close knit family. In the past 5 months, me and 4 of my first cousins got pregnant. The youngest out of the 5 lost her baby in December around the same time I found out I was pregnant. I, being the oldest of the five, lost mine 2 months later. We both are happy for the other three but it is really hard haivng to see it or hear about it all the time. There are days both of us have woke up angry or withdrawn from the world. It is extremely hard to cope with it when it is constantly in your face.

[mum2_2]

Tanx everyone for your kind words.im feelin alittle bit better.i had my first day bk at work today.im so scared im going to forget my little jellybean.i no this wnt happen but i cant help feelin it.also can i ask did anyone here have a d&c

[hotmama78]

Dear trust me when i say i truly understand how you feel and i am so sorry for your loss... i also facing the same thing last Jan 15.. i still birth my baby Aidan at 21weeks and till now i still not coping with the loss.. :( i trying hard and i just not sure when or how can i be ok again.. but many say its normal so i am looking forward to new life...!!! all the best.. hugs to you...xxx

[mama1981]

I;m so very sorry for your loss...I know exactly how you feel...Just take things one day at a time and its ok to grieve in any manner...no right or wrong...you're in my thoughts and prayers...

marline

[stacey10]

I'm sorry for your loss, and what your feeling is completly natural, your greiving the loss of your baby and all that that encompases for you, just give yourself time and things do start to get better