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miscarriage :-(

So late last night i began spotting then within the early hours of this morning i notice heavy bleeding. I went to see my midwife and as i sat in the waiting room i got really bad pain felt something. Went to the toilet and i had a miscarriage. I was only 5weeks 3days gone n it might seem silly but i actually grieved as though id lost a baby that was in my arms. Now i let it all out of my system and i just want it to be okay and i cant wait to begin trying again. Baring in mine how long i was, do u guys think or know if it would be easy or hard for me to get pregnant.. how long does it take to ovulate?
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5485096 tn?1375574235
I would go with what your doctor says... If you had a d/c I would definitely wait  for 2-3 months as the lining will be better then.
If there was not a d/c myself I would try again ASAP... But that may not be correct by doc standards.

As far as ovulation goes ... If you did not have a d/c I would count your initial bleeding as day 1 ... I have had many early miscarriages and I always ovulated on cue.
Take notice of your body changes over a month and you may be able to know exactly when you ovulate by certain changes... Ie extra mucus, pain like cramp on one side. You can also buy ovulation prediction sticks too.

So sorry for you loss... This may not help but after many many losses I do have 3 healthy children... The journey was long nd up and downs but it was my journey to go through and made me cherish what I have. For some reason this was to be my story so I took my journey as it was and hung on for the roller coaster ride... My ending is very exciting.. I hope yours will be too.
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Im sorry for your lost...i had a miscarriage July of 2012 i was 3months and.i grieved alot and had to have a d+c of course they said you should wait 3 months cause its whats best for your body but i wanted it so bad and was so sad that i tried right after and got pregnant 2months after but.it was just a sac the baby did not.form and i stilled cryed...see whether your 9 months pregnant or just 5weeks it still hurts cause its a part of you. Even that the second.time for me was just a sac it still hurt cause the baby  i wanted wasn't there and.felt.i was trying to.replace the.one i.lost...nevertheless i tried a while after.and.got.pregnant in november im currently still pregnant and ask god everyday to bless my baby....when its time you will get your baby just be positive.and.do not stress cause before.you know it you will be.blessed with a beautiful baby and on your way to mother hood
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5633047 tn?1371909510
I'm srry 4 your lost luv we had a miscarriage in March and just found out I was pregnant again last Friday so it all depends on your body and stress level
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Hi..So sorry for your loss!!
I MC on October 31st and I was 5 weeks too, and I cried soo hard just like how u say it, it broke my heart!
I waited for one period and started trying again(what my doc told me) and now im due a healthy baby boy in 10 weeks :) xxx Mail me if u want to talk xx
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3198629 tn?1367038423
Hey, I'm sorry for your loss. But please, speak to your doctor before trying again, you could do more harm then good. I got the okay from my doctor to start trying again right away. it took four months for me to see a positive test. But now I'm 27+6 with a healthy baby girl.(:
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3604513 tn?1355536750
I'm so sorry to heard that I lost my babe nov 18 12 @ 17 weeks and 5 days my doctor told me to wait 3 months it has been almost 7 months and no luck for us.
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931246 tn?1297902651
Sorry for your loss. I was told to wait 3 months before I tried again. I felt the same as you. If you want to try when the 3 months come up go for it.
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