miscarring without been aware

[amymac35]

I'm 19 and have recently been to see a spiritualist, I wasn't sure at the time if I believed or not but after sitting threw it, he told me things which related to me, however he also told me I had misacarried a baby without knowing, just that I had thought at the time I may have been pregnant but when all symptoms faded away I thought nothing of it. My head is now all over the place and I don't know who to talk too. Has anyone else known to have not been aware that they were miscarrying and is it right for me to be greaving even though it hasn't happened recently and didn't know about it at the time? Any help will be great thankyou

[always_smile]

Oh in sorry I misread that I thought u said specialist. No I haven't experienced that sorry.

[always_smile]

Yea what you had is called a missed miscarriage and I have had three of them. There really is not set time to grieve... cry as much and as long as you need to cause its a loss if your baby no matter if it was last week or last night . I'm so sorry for your loss :0(