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Bad news last night

I got some bad news last night from my bother. Our mother is dying. They only give her a week or two. She is staying at home with my brother with 24 hour care until the end comes. I did talk to her for a little while today and her spirits are very good as she has been preparing for this time for quite a while now.

I'm making a trip out to Oregon to see her this weekend and don't know how long it will be before I return home. My friend Dave has volunteered to go with me so that the drive will not be too hard on me. We are planning on driving straight through in order to get there as soon as posible. Wish me and Dave luck on the drive, we sure could use it.

Dennis
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My thoughts and prayers are with you!
NiCee
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My thoughts and prayers are with you, and I am sorry you are going through this tough time.  Have a safe trip and may God Bless you and your family.

doni
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198419 tn?1360242356
My condolences, Dennis. Be well for your trip and we'll be here for you when you return.

Enjoy the time w/family best you can,
Shell

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195469 tn?1388322888
I am so sorry you are facing the loss of your mother.  Many of us have been through the same thing, but that doesn't make you feel any better about losing your own mother.  Let's just say that we will be with you in spirit. We will be hoping that you and your mother get to spend some special time together.  A time that you will never forget and will actually treasure.

God Bless your entire family.

Heather
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648910 tn?1290663083
Facing this time is difficult for anyone.  I have been there done that.  However, the time I had to say goodbye is priceless.  Many ppl do not get the chance to say all they wish they had said.  

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

terry
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281565 tn?1295982683
I too have been in your place not that long ago. I pray for you and your family to find the peace that your Mom has with this. Enjoy the time you have and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Moki
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199882 tn?1310184542
Dennis, I'm so sorry to hear about your mother.  I've been in your place before and it's not fun. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.

I'll be praying,
Carol
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Another voice here reminding you that your forum family is with you in spirit. May you have a safe trip, and may you be comforted.

ess
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Your in my prayers Dennis. Take care
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382218 tn?1341181487
So very sorry to hear your sad news.  Wishing you a safe journey to Oregon.  Also wishing you peace of mind at this very difficult time.
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Dennis

I know we don't know eachother or most of the forum personally, but I know that I don't just speak for myself when I say that your  "family" here, are thinking about you, and the terrible pain you are going through right now.  Please always know, you have a haven of comfort here, and always our listening ears.  We hope that you can feel our huge embrace, our huge, gentle, group "MS Hug"  Take care, and have a safe trip to be with your mom.  So, so sorry for your pain.

Sandie
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I am so sorry to hear about your mom. May you have the comfort and love of family and friends during a difficult time.
Amers
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Dennis,
I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I'm glad you have the opportunity to see her and spend some time with her.  Sending warm and comforting thoughts for you your journey and wishes for peace for yourself and your family.

Ren
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751951 tn?1406632863
Dennis, you can be certain that your journey and your mother's will be made on paths already paved with prayers from the folks on this forum.  If I can do anything to help at any time, please let me know.  Let God hold you in His hand each step of the way.
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562511 tn?1285904160
So sorry to hear this. My prayers are with you all.
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531519 tn?1307632685
Hi Dennis
I am so sorry you got that terrible news, i myself has been through that situation so many times i have lost my mum & dad my sister at 34yrs old and my son who was still born so i can fully understand were u r and were u r going. Please know that we will all be praying for u and ur family. Please drive safely and may god guide you through the dark days ahead.
Take Care and God Bless
Kindest Regards
Julie xx
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1070610 tn?1279274410
Dennis,

Both my parents are gone so I can feel your pain right now.  I hope you can spend some precious time with your mum and that god brings you both comfort and strength .  I will be thinking of you and  your family and praying for your safe return.

God Bless
Mistylee
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I don't know you but my heart and prayers are with you. In our darkness there will be light so hang on to hope and faith. God Bless.
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The Holy Spirit will hold your mother in His agentle embrace, and guide her safely home. He will also be with you and your family in this time of sorrow. You are lucky to be able to go see her. Please drive carefully here to Oregon and back home.

(hugs))) & prayers
Maggie
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211940 tn?1267881266
You and your family, are in my thoughts and prayers.

May God bless her, and Jesus welcome her home.
May God also, hold you and your family in His loving embrace.
Know He will be there to comfort you, and to mourn with you.
Take care and God bless (and may He give you a safe trip there
and a safe return trip home).

-- Socrates
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147426 tn?1317265632
I'm sorry for this.  I have yet to face it and know it will eventually be coming.  I'm glad to hear your mother is preparing for the end.  That is healthy for all of you.  Take real care on your trip.  I am in SW Washington and will send you good and warm thoughts to pull you in gently.

Quix
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405614 tn?1329144114
I'm so sorry; I wish you comfort and strength this coming week.  May your drive be swift and safe.  I'm here in Oregon, sending warm and comforting thoughts to ease your way.  I hope you see plenty of wildlife along the way.

Kathy
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My prayers and thoughts are w/u,Hang in there and drive safe,god bless:)many hugs- Chrissy
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560501 tn?1383612740
   Thoughts and Prayers are w/ you at this most difficult time.
Have a safe trip. <<>>>

~Tonya
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