Yeah, what everybody else said!
Tell that toad I still want to hear from him, but that I don't think he has sufficient testosterone to dial the number.
Over here we dont like toads, they are toxic invaders, most people with a toad problem, do what ever needs doing to eradicate them from their environment!
Its really really great that your doing whats best for YOU, not sure i would of moved out earlier than planned, i would of told him if he wasnt comfortable there was nothing stopping him from moving into a hotel until he could have the house to himself. I'm gob smacked at his audacity, but as you said he's showing his true colours!
ahhh just a word of warning, a just in case but considering i wouldnt put anything past him after being underhanded already, just be careful of what you disclose on an OPEN forum, it wouldnt be good for you if he knows more than you would like him to, you just dont know these days do you?!
Keep your chin up and stay focused on your needs, now and in the future.
Cheers......JJ
Sorry you have abdominal pain on top of "toad pain". Hang in there and be tough with the legal aspects. Don't give in to any offer you are not comfortable with. In my former career as paralegal, I've seen offers being exchanged numerous times (8, I think, was the record, from each side). Don't settle for anything less than you deserve!
We're here for you anytime!!
Ren
Chrisy, it's good to hear resolve and some anger in your voice. Anger carries us through bad times much better than depression does. I know this is still hard.
I hope your attorney also makes and keeps making the point that "equitable" also includes the notion of each spouse's potential earning capacity. With your diagnosis, it may be equitable that your deserting toad take all of the debt.
We are certainly here for you.
Quix
Chrisy,
Hang in there sister.
Alex
Boy are you going through alot, hang in there friend and I'm glad you got a good lawyer. keep us updated and know we are here for you.
take care and Hugs
wobbly