Hi all, I'm here because my boyfriend's penis has been very numb for a while now. In terms of background, he's 38, a smoker and a drinker, no exercise, but rather slim and "healthy".
At the beginning, we would be in the middle of intercourse and he would give one thrust too hard and feel a sudden pain in the groin, which would then cause him to feel pain even after sex and for periods of times ranging from a few days to a month or so. Actually, his penis becomes numb at the head and sometimes his testicules are irritated, and he gets this sort of tingly, hot, flashing sensation, on and off for ages. It stings when he pees, too.
Apparently, he's had this before, a few years ago, but the feeling had gone after a while. He's been to see doctors and specialists but none of them have really been able to find the problem. Some have said it's a nerve in his groin that's stuck?
The thing is, it's become more and more frequent and he hasn't had morning wood for some time now. Naturally, it's frustrating for us, especially because nobody seems to know what the problem is. These past weeks, he can barely get hard, and when he does and we manage to carry out intercourse, he says the feeling is rather faint and the numbness is still there.
I'm writing this for him because we're French, but if you answer and need more specific information, I'd gladly translate.
Thank you in advance for your input!