Can't stop thinking about becoming a girl

[wanthealthymindnbody]

I am a 29 yr old guy who has been dressing up in women's clothes and progressively think about being a girl. Initially it was more of a fetish for masturbation but now is it like persistent thoughts about being a girl and engaging in a female role. I am not sure if I am transgender or my anxiety or porn addiction are contributing to these thoughts.

[specialmom]

If you have anxiety and porn addiction, you should be seeing a therapist.  That would be the perfect place to explore your feelings.  Being transgender is not a problem if it is who you are and you own it.  If you live in limbo though, that is difficult.  Talk to a therapist about it.  And porn addiction is never good nor conducive to self discovery or actual relationships with other people (IE: normal life).  So, get rid of that before you do anything drastic.  good luck

[wanthealthymindnbody]

Thanks @specialmom. I agree and appreciate your advice. I have decided to stop watching porn and to get my mind back to think clearly and figure out if I am really trans. I tried a couple of therapists but they weren't of much help. I hope a step by step approach of self-help will help me.