doesn't sound like you're gay, just homophobic. it's really not gay to acknowledge that another man is goodlooking. Now if you were fantasizing about sex with another man, and acted on those thoughts then you're gay. I'm straight and have had some bothersome thoughts like that. Sometimes it's in dreams. Hey if you really wanna know if you're gay or not, test yourself. Put on a gay porn. If your thing goes up, you're gay. If it doesn't then you're straight.