My eyes water just reading this. So painful. You've tried so many things too! What types of medications have you tried?
This is why when I started to get this problem my doc told me to leave well enough alone and live with it. But now that you've done it, the only thing to say is, if the docs you're seeing can't fix things find better docs. But every time we have any kind of procedure from a surgeon, there is a risk even if very small that things will go horribly wrong. Any time we take a medication there is the same risk. That's why the first rule of medicine is, first, do no harm. Sometimes things go wrong, or sometimes we have a weakness or sensitivity a doctor can't predict. But again, best thing to do is, when your docs can't help, find better docs. Peace.