Leslee

[SimplyStar]

I went to the visitation today, what a lovely tribute to Leslee, there were hundreds of people came through in the 4 hours, walls of flowers, a table full of pictures of her life and  2 videos , with music  again about my lovely daughter.  I knew she was well liked, even loved, but I was astounded at the flow of people, relatives from all over and Canada, staff she worked with, the consumers  { adults with disabilities}. one man with Down Syndrome that really was one of Leslee's favorites, said, "they already made a movie with her",  there were wheel chairs and walkers, blind people, group homes people,  I saw tears, hugs, kisses, laughter, I heard sad stories about missing her, and heard stories about how much she meant to them.  One remark I heard was , "she leaves a space, that no one else can fill." The facility whare Leslee worked, is collecting money to make a memorial garden  with the flag stone terrace and walks, each stome will be dedicated by a family that she touched.  A fire pit and a picnic table are in the plans.  They want it to be a lovely place with Roses of all colors.  I copied out the posts from all of you, and put that on the table, with an explaination  of where it came from,  I heard many say, isn't it nice that women can support each other like this.  I was afraid to go today, but what I left with, was a great feeling of love.  The funeral is tomorrow, another challenge, but I feel like i have lots of support now.  Marty

[SimplyStar]

This will be my final "update" for Leslee. I saw her buried today, and yes I won't lie, it broke my heart.  She went to this with lots of love, but I find it hard to accept. I am sure that time will help me find the time for the memories. Death is not the choice for any of us , at any time, we know it is there, but we push it aside and fight  it.  I will continue to help you ladies fight, in any way I can.  I will research, offer ideas, laugh with you, cry with you, and know that, on down the road somewhere, sometime, there will be a cure.  there are no words that I can think of to tell you all , how much I have appriciated all the help you have given Leslee and me. she always asked me, "what would the ladies on the forum do?"  none of us failed her, it is this dam disease, but I want you all to know that she did feel the Love from all of you, and the help that we were able to give  her over the time of her fight, did help her.  Today was the worst day of my life, when I get through this, I will return as your "Marty"  and  we will continue  to look for answers.   Marty

[Jan214]

No one is surprised that there was such a large turnout for Leslee.  She lived an active life and helped so many people, just as you have done your whole life. I am glad a day that started out with dread could end with you feeling all that love, respect and admiration for Leslee.  I think the memorial is a spectacular way to honor Leslee's life.  Not just a statue but a place for people to enjoy life.  That is a very nice tribute.  Cory and I will continue to keep you in our prayers and hope that in the days ahead you will have peace.  Know that Leslee did the right thing for her.  None of us want to go, but there does come a time when we are ready to go.  
Love,
Jan

[JC145]

Oh, Marty, what a wonderful salute to Leslee's life .. she will never be gone .. you just won't see her physically.  My prayers remain for you and the family and the time to come when you are alone with your thoughts.  Know that we are are with you in spirit.  Judy

[justscore]

We are all with you in spirit.  
I will plant some beautiful fall flowers in honor of you and your family.  
I hope you hold onto the wonderful memories you and Leslee shared.  Peace to you and your family.

Heidi

[ireneo]

You can see how much your daughter accomplished in her lifetime. If only everyone was as loving and giving as she was. You must be proud. You'll be in my thoughts today.
Irene

[PPhelps]

It sounds like a lovely tribute to Leslee.  I wish we could all be there with you in person, but know we are with you in spirit and heart.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Paula