Positive Paracentisis Results

[girlygirl28]

i just got my results from my paracentisi on friday and they showed positive...im so lost and confused right now....my too lil ones were with me and my husband is seperated from me right now (doing some military stuff) and i feel lost, confused, not sure how to tell him...and i dont feel like i asked the right questions over the phone in regards to it...im in total shock...what should I ask...i feel so blank right now

[JC145]

Will be praying you get the answers you need and can move forward.  Do you have anyone near you to lend a helping hand?  Wish I could help you with the lil ones.  They make the situation so much harder to deal with when you are alone.  Thoughts and prayers are with you.  Judy

[marie3B]

I am sorry the results came back like that.  I was hoping you would be spared dealing with this.  I hope all goes well and you get excellent care.  Please feel free to ask anything or to just come here to talk.  Marie

[PF_PVD]

No, no you didn't do anything wrong--no apology necessary.  As I said it just makes it hard when people are responding on two threads.  It's like only hearing part of a conversation sometimes!!

[girlygirl28]

Thank You...Im having a difficult time right now and stress is through the roof...THANK YOU (hugs)

[gma718]

Just want you to know if there is anything you need you can count on me...My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time..you have come to the right place for all your support and prayers....Gia :)

[girlygirl28]

Im sorry for having two threads...really I am...I appreciate ALLLLL the feedback...today has not been such a good day....dealing with family, etc...its making this whole thing harder...

[PF_PVD]

Dian,

Yes, she did but she has another fairly active thread going as well, so I think people are not ignoring her but trying not to respond twice.  It can get confusing with parallel threads.

Paula

[dian07]

Just bumping this to the top......evidently she has been told there is a malignancy here.
Peace.
dian

[ChrisP2236]

I am so sorry to hear that, but you WILL get through this.  We are here to help as much as we can. Did they say exactly what the results showed positive for?  I know they were testing for malignant cells, but could they tell the origin/type?  Did the dr's office give you a "next step" like a referral to a gyn/onc?

I know this is a shock and it's going to take some time to gather your wits and calm yourself.  One thing you might do is make a list of all the questions you have right now and keep that list with you to add to as you go through the day.  Also, it should be okay to call the office back in a little while and ask them some of your questions if you really feel you need some additional answers/explanations.  Just let them know your husband is away and you want to be fully informed before you tell him the test results. Do you have a support network you can call on?  Family or friends?  It might help if you could have someone there to help you with the children for awhile and offer moral support until you get a clear understanding of what's going on with you.  Wish I could be there to offer a hug in person, Chris P