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Raven Lady

Mary, RavenLady,  passed early this morning.  I am certain Frank will come here, so, if you wish to leave a message, this is a good plalce to do it.
Frank said she left with a smile on her face totally at peace.  My heart breaks for him and her mom and brothers and sisters, and of course, her two children.  She has many friends who will miss her as well.  I am one of them.
Peace.
dian
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136956 tn?1688675680
I am so saddened by her passing I just dont know what to say.  She was an amazing women and was so patient.  She was helpful, caring and understanding and she through the BEST cyber parties. She sent me an email about a year and a half ago and after that she would just come and go from the BBBC.  I miss her encouraging words she was the most amazing person I have every met online.  She really help me though some rough times.  When i really needed someone she was there.  

Frank I am sorry for your loss may she rest in peace..
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155056 tn?1333638688
Mary - Ravenlady - rest in peace.....you will be missed.   I am certain that we will have to throw a cyberparty soon in your memory!!!

Thanks for everything you did for OvCa and even more so, thanks for keeping the "group" together.

Love always,
Pam
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106886 tn?1281291572
No, I cannot believe this. Canadian Katie and I were just wondering about her a few weeks ago.

Mary and I met through the forum back in about 2005 and during a Cyberparty we realized we lived about eight miles or so from each other here in the Minneapolis area. We met for Iced Tea at a local flower shop in the Spring of that year. I will always remember that day and how much fun it was to meet a forum friend. She had so much energy and zest for life.

Dian, thank you for letting us know about this. You were such a good friend to her. I recall when you told us of her cancer (I know it does not matter, really, but wasn't it brain or lung cancer ... ) about a year ago. I am just in shock right now. I cannot imagine what her family is going through. She spoke so highly of her kids... and, of course, of Frank!!!... "The love of her life." So sad. I'm so sorry.

Mary
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329994 tn?1301663248
I am very sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and her husband. Hugs, Colleen
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415684 tn?1257329318
So sorry to hear about the loss of Mary.  My sympathy to her family.  

Judy
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378425 tn?1305628294
Ravenlady......To all of her family and friends you have my deepest condolences....She was a fantastic lady....I too remember the parties and she made sure everyone was welcome and she brought unity........Rest in Peace....Love Dawnlyn
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212140 tn?1201944974
Ravenlady, go in peace, you were the first peson who helped us out (Violet & me) my thoughts are to those you leave behind, Steve -Jordan
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167426 tn?1254086235
I will miss her, this breaks my heart, she was such a good friend and a wonderful person, her love of scuba diving , her time  at the lake with Frank, her wonderful posts  telling us all how to buck up and live to the fullest, what a wonderful woman.  We have all gained a beautiful angel, may God bring comfort and peace to Frank and family, we all know how much she loved them all.  Rest in peace Mary, we all loved you so much and  to me you were one in a million.   Marty
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107366 tn?1305680375
COMMUNITY LEADER
Although Mary's death was from cancer, it was not OvCa.  She had a suspicious cyst that turned out benign.  I believe she'd been here since about 2004.  She had a lot of knowledge about cysts, and was very helpful to many ladies.  She was very interested in spreading the word about OvCa, too, and was an advocate for all of us.  Although she did not visit the forum much after Medhelp changed the appearance of the site a couple of years ago, she was always in our corner.  She will be missed more than she could ever know.

Gail    
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187666 tn?1331173345
I'm so sorry she's gone now. I remember adding a picture of Aristophanes, our raven at work, for her. I hope she got to see it. Hugs to the family.   irene
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356929 tn?1246389756
I, too,remember her well ...I'm so sorry to hear this news..

Sandy
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349465 tn?1289081764
I'm sorry to hear about another MedHelp loss. However, in looking at her profile, I cannot tell whether or not she had OVCA. Do you ladies know? I did not go to any of her cyber parties. I'm sorry I missed them.  Ya'll seem to have gotten a lot of joy from them.\
Teresa
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349465 tn?1289081764
I'm sorry to hear about another MedHelp loss. However, in looking at her profile, I cannot tell whether or not she had OVCA. Do you ladies know? I did not go to any of her cyber parties. I'm sorry I missed them.  Ya'll seem to have gotten a lot of joy from them.\
Teresa
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408448 tn?1286883821
Thank you for letting us know. She was a wonderful person.  I will be thinking of her family in this time of loss.  Marie
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483733 tn?1326798446
So sorry to hear.  It is so sad to lose another wonderful lady.
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135691 tn?1271097123
I'm not really sure what happened, but to say I am shocked and saddened by this news is an understatement. I too, will always remember Mary for her cyberparties - she always made sure we stuck together as  a group, through thick and thin.
I'm so sorry to her family for their loss...
Rest in peace my friend...
Becky xx
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225036 tn?1294509400
I am in total shock to hear this news.  Mary was the very first person to answer my post on my cyst years ago.  She was so helpful and patient with me.  Her cyberparties were the best.  I used to stay up so late so I wouldn't miss a thing.  Please accept my condolences.  She will be greatly missed.  Rest in peace Mary!

Kasie (fungirl)
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Oh my gosh!  That makes me cry, too.  She was one of the very first people I met here.  Prayers and hugs to her family.

~L
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107366 tn?1305680375
COMMUNITY LEADER
I am so sorry to hear this news.  I will always remember her as the one who started our cyberparties, and all the help she gave when I first came here.  My heart and prayers go out to you, Frank, and all her family and friends.  May she rest in peace.  

Gail

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196469 tn?1365387975
Through the tears I type this..........I am so sorry for the loss of Mary.  My heart is breaking for her family.  Another angel..............

Heidi
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