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187666 tn?1331173345

Update on Becky

Got this note on FaceBook and was asked to pass it along. Please pray for her. This bowel thing isn't letting go.

Hi Irene,
I'm pretty sure I remember seeing you on Becky's Medhelp??
I don't have any of her passwords or I'd write on there but, she is in the hospital with a bowel obstruction...went in Thursday night and as of today, Monday - still not much relief at all. She is in a lot of pain. Not eating or drinking. I just know she'd want all you ladies updated so, maybe if you could mention something? Keep her in prayers. i know you are all really special to her.

Thanks!
Ashley
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441690 tn?1327078843
Becky...
I came back here after a long time to check on you and Deandra. I'm so sad to see you are both fighting so hard.

You are in my thoughts.... stay strong.
Meg
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Hey there, kid!  So good to hear your sweet voice again.  I am certain Ty is chomping at  the bit wanting you home again.  My wish and prayer for you is that you are able to get home with your family and be free of pain and anxiety and filled with Peace.
Years ago, Becky, I never could have imagined a young woman and her son (people I had never met in person) would become so important to me and own such a piece of my heart.
My prayers and love are with you and Ty and your loved ones.
May Peace be with you, Becky.
dian
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194838 tn?1303428544
I,m so  sorry that you are going through so much, I am thinking of you and praying that you feel better soon and can go home and be with your son who I bet wants to give you a great big hug and kiss!.

Love
Angie
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329994 tn?1301663248
There isn't much I can say different from the others, I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you and that while I can't understand what you are going through, I know having Ty makes it all the more difficult. You do what you think is best for you and I will be keeping you in my prayers and in my heart.
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187666 tn?1331173345
So happy to see you here. After reading what all you've been through, I can understand why you were ready to let it all go. Personally I'm happy you're back and we can still see your smiling profile face. And I know your family is thrilled to hug you and love you. But I suppose you know now that when the day really does come, you'll feel that sense of peace and be ready. For now, rest up and enjoy the moments and days ahead.
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408448 tn?1286883821
I am glad you feel a little better.  I join the others in praying the right thing is found to help you.  Marie
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107366 tn?1305680375
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I wish there was something we could do for you, but I must say it's good to see you posting.  We're always thinking of you, but I know you haven't left my mind very much at all this week, and I have a feeling that goes for everyone else, too.  I hope you get to go home soon to spend time with all those you love.  I'm praying God gives you exactly what you need the most.

Gail
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135691 tn?1271097123
Thanks so much for all of your kind words, thoughts and especially prayers. I look back at just a few days ago and I was begging to die. I just wanted to be done with all of this...I didn't want to even see my son because I knew if I saw him, then I might change my mind and I didn't want to. It's amazing what get's  thrown at us and how we keep getting back up but every hit I take just cuts me down a little bit each time. I can't keep doing this...I don't have much left to give.
I'm not giving up...I'm just re-thinking what my plan should be. I know that a few days ago, I thought that was it for me and to be that close and now to feel the slightest bit better, well...let's just say I have a new appreciation for life. I just want to go home and be with my loved ones.
Life is just so fragile.
Becky xx
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167426 tn?1254086235
Becky wrote a full report  on caring bridge, she has really been going through a rough time,  once again she has been pulled back from the brink,  keep up the prayers for her and send her your love, knowing that she is receiving this from us will help her moral  and  give her the will to keep on fighting.  Hang in there Becky, we are all pulling for you.  Marty
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155056 tn?1333638688
Irene - thanks for the update.

Becky - you will continue to be in my thoughts....

Love,
Pam
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Becky,

This is exciting news!  Maybe now you can get some relief and get home back to your son.  We are praying really hard for you.  Love Lisa
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229895 tn?1261601948
I am so happy that they have been able to help you Becky and you are starting to get some relief.

Hopefully you will be able to go home soon.

Jenny
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408448 tn?1286883821
I am glad that they have been able to help some. I will be much happier when I hear she is feeling great.
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329994 tn?1301663248
I just saw this thread and am glad I got the update too. Please let Becky know that she is in my thoughts and in my heart and prayers. She has so many of us praying for her and she is strong,so will pray that she is out of there soon and home recuperating as best she can. Much love, Colleen
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That is wonderful news!!! :)  I am praying she is out of pain and able to go home soon!
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238582 tn?1365210634
What a wonderful news to hear first thing in the morning.  Thank you for sharing.

Peace and Love

jun
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187666 tn?1331173345
I sent a short note to Ashley to ask about Becky. Somehow she graciously took the time to give us an update. Thank you Ashley!


Well, I'm very happy to say that she is feeling better - she's had some 'relief' and she has tube in through her nose to her stomach pumping out fluids which has helped out. She was certainly worrying me but, when I saw her last night...she was more chatty and more herself.
Hopefully things keep getting better.
Thanks for checking in!!!
Ashley
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Becky,

I am not sure if you are up to reading these messages, but I am really sad to hear you are in pain and are back in the hospital.    You and Ty are in my thoughts and prayers.  It just isn't fair!!!  

Hugs and Prayers,

Shelly  
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408448 tn?1286883821
Checking in to see if any relief has come.  Still hoping and praying the pain goes away.  Marie
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107366 tn?1305680375
COMMUNITY LEADER
Not sure what to say that hasn't already been said.  We know you are strong, but even the strongest have moments when they can't be.  Even though we can't be there in person, we're all holding you up and giving you strength right along with your family and friends in Canada.  This has been such a long road for you, and now you must rest and focus on healing.  I'm sending you love and prayers, and hoping things get better, and that pain relief will come quickly.  

Love,
Gail
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238582 tn?1365210634
what an inspiration to all of us. we all love you so much.

jun
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Thank you so much for the heads up.....I just wrote what I feel sincerely....but I need to admit I am heart broken and in tears for Becky and Ty and Adam and her family.....she owns a chunk of my heart and I wish desperately I could do something.  If you are able, Ashley, please give her my love for her and Ty......she is one of the most remarkable people in my life.
Peace be with you, Becky, and Ashley.
dian
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Sweet Becky....mother of Ty.....you have fought so hard for so long....you and Ty are quite the team and now you have Adam to stand with you.  You have set such a strong and loving example for Ty to follow.  You are quite the mom !
I know you know you are surrounded and lifted by love from so many of us out here..you are not alone....not ever.  Besides Ty and Adam and your parents and extended family you are constantly on someone's mind and in our hearts.  We love you Becky.....I have since I got to know you in 2005........your little boy has grown up so much !  You have been a real gift to me ......thank you for sharing yourself with us..you will always be in my heart.
Peace.
dian
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167426 tn?1254086235
My dear Becky, know that you are in my thoughts  and I am praying daily for you, Life seems to kick us in the teeth every so often, but with your courage and tenancity you can kick back,  As always,  know that I send my love to you , Adam and TY,  Marty
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