Im so sorry to hear you have to go through this.
As far as I know, cysts can grow quite fast. 4.9cm in 3 weeks is very fast but probably not impossible, and Id be shocked if they missed it 3 weeks ago.
Considering it is just one cyst and you already lost an ovary, you may want to get a second opinion before you agree to a hysterectomy.. Many cysts disappear on their own within a few months (take birth control for 3 months or so), and taking the complications of loosing both ovaries into consideration, I would definately make sure I checked all options. If the cyst causes you a lot of pain or is complex, you will probably need it removed, but maybe you can keep your ovary and everything else.
Was your previous surgery open or keyhole? The recovery from keyhole surgery is significantly shorter than open surgery. As for open surgery I have read the vertical incision is more painful than the horizontal incision.. sorry to say :( It would take you at least 6-8 weeks to be able to do your usual tasks.
I wish you all the best.
Thank you for your comment.
I am in considerable pain. They have me on 2 mg Dilaudid every 4 hours. I definately know when its close to the end of those four hours. Am not sure what a key hole surgery is. This was three small incisions at my belly button, pubis and left lower abd.
I have a history of cysts. When they took out the left ovary 3 weeks ago there was the big cyst that had ruptured and then numerous other small cysts on it. They can only see this one 4.9 cyst on my right ovary so who knows how many other small cysts there are. I'd rather get it all taken out and be done with it. No more cysts=no more pain. Am so tired of the pain and having my life turned upside down by it.
Keyhole is laparoscopy, but way easier for me to spell, where they use 3 small incisions to get their instruments in and fill you with co2 gas. It appears to be what you had.
I really dont envy all of you women with painful cysts, I guess Im lucky mine hasnt ruptured or caused too much pain yet..