My 11 Year Old Daughter Dosent Wan

[theparentof3]

Okay... So i have a daughter that is 11 and turning 12 this year. She has been asking me MULTIPLE questions "if she's still a kid", "Are Teenagers Kids!?" "Would I Still Love Her If She Was Grown Up" And All That... And I Dont Know What To DO! I LOVE HER SOO MUCH And She Is Going To *Middle School*High school Next Year. Every Time I Take Her To Her Primary School She Always Says I Cant Wait For *Middle School*High school Next Year but I Know She Is Hurt And She Dosent Want To Go! OR GROW UP! I guess Its Puberty Or At Least Getting To Puberty!
she Also Dosent Really Have Friends At School That Enjoy Spending Time With!!! I Dont Want To Say Anything Or Do Anything Because I Know Its Her Desicion!! PLEASE TELL ME WHAT I CAN DO TO MAKE HER FEEL BETTER.. I LOVE HER MORE THAN MYSELF<3
P.S I Looked At Her Histroy On The Family Computer And I saw LOTS Of Websites telling about growth and all...

[mom5girls]

I would say she has some anxiety issues and all you really can do is reassure her that you love her no matter her age and will always love her no matter what! Also maybe get her into some extra curricular activities such as dance,gymnastics,softball etc where she can start building friendships and not have so much time to sit and worry and dwell on things.....being part of a team will help with anxiety by giving them skills of working together and being there for one another and helps build friendships and character along the way...  Maybe she needs a little push to get involved but I think it will help you both out in the long run! Good luck!