I am scheduled to have a lift and slight implant next week. I am very private and wouldn't want my kids to reveal to people at school, what mom is doing. I am usually at school alot and will need to excuse my absence somehow. Should I just say that mom isn't sick and had a private "mom" surgery that will limit my movement for a while ., but I"m fine. Or should I really tell them what is going on, and that it is private. We are a close family and I think that they are trust worthy, but I don't want to make them uncomfortable.