I have 3 kids 6 months, 5 and 7. I just got married after being divorced for 3 years. I have shared parenting with my oldest 2 kids dad! He is very unstable and there are barely any rules or routine!
Anyway, My 7 year old use to be mommys little boy. So loving and kind, but recently, he has been out of control. He gets mad and says he hates me and wants to live with his dad. He tells me hes going to call the police on me, and he tears things up that he made for me, or will scribble out something that he wrote "I love mom" on it or something like that!! He does take med for adhd, and he does see a youth councelor.
He argues with me over everything, and yells at me. He will get mad when I tell him to go to his room and will throw a tantrum!!
I feel like hes slipping away from me. I dont know what to do. He is my life.
I dont want to punish him sometimes, because I dont want him to hate me and want to run and live with his dad the first chance he gets!!
And of course My new husband does not understand !! His only child is 6 months old!! He wants me to put my foot down and to not pity him. I know there is something more to all of this, and Im not sure what!!
Please help!