My 14 year old daughter is socially out there, but can't seem to find that supportive friend she is desperate to have. She has tried everything I know of, kind, funny, going with the flow. She can make friends - sort of - she thinks she is part of a group, comes home raving about a great girl she clicks with - and then a few weeks later, she will go and wash her hands to come back and find her group has moved to the Library, and none of them seem to think they should wait for her or tell her where their going. She does not feel they see her as that nuisance girl who won't get the message - she is really sensitive to that - but there doesn't seem to be anyone who will go with her to her locker, or say 'where's Livvy (not her real name), or see her as an integral part of the group. She seems to be an add on? We do the sleep overs; social occasions; but she is never called first, or seen as essential to the group's dynamic - whichever group she is with at the time. This has been going on for about 4 years - does anyone have any advice for me? I am at my wits end watching this confident, happy girl slowly shrink inside.