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I lost my baby and had to have D&C 01/13/10

Is it my fault did i do something wrong? i'm so depressed i don't feel like doing anything. not even showering.. i miss my baby i feel so empty. i cry all the time. i can't take it anymore would someone please help me!!!
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I know exactly what you are going through and believe blaming yourself will not help you....you will learn to go on...I too had a late miscarriage at 21 weeks this past October it was very hard until this day I can still remember the day as if it was yesterday but I keep reminding myself things happen for a reason I might not understand it right now but everything happens for a reason.....talking about it helped me vent the ladies here in MH helped a lot as well as my wonderful husband, family and friends.....when I felt very depressed I would right my feelings or talk about it with someone it really help me...it is not your fault and like I said try not to blame yourself it is just going to make you feel worse you had no control over that none of us do if we did I think we would all have our angels with us...you will never forget but the pain will ease and things will be easier as time goes on...take care
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I'm so sorry for your loss, you didn't do anything wrong.  every pregnancy has a 25% chance of miscarriage with pcos it is higher.  But you did not do anything to make it happen.  I have never had a miscarriage so I cannot begin to understand the heartache you are going through.  No one should expect you to be back to normal anytime soon.  again i'm so sorry.  
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