I will be praying for you both. I too am facing a very hard time. My husband left me a week ago for a younger woman. 10 yrs younger then my husband and me, and only 8 yrs older then his daughter. I am trying to be strong during this time. God is truly the only one that can help us. When we come together in numbers all things are possible praying for you both do the same for me.
Prayer truly works. I have prayed for you all. God's hears us and will bring us through. I went through a situation several weeks ago. It wasn't serious but it brought inconvenience. The Lord used that situation to teach me no matter what we go through He is there to bring us through it, if we just believe. He loves us, unconditionally, no matter what. The Bible says, "Faith IS the substance of things hoped for and evidence of things not seen". Faith is believing God will bring us through every thing. No matter what our struggle is, we are blessed.
I am so sorry, my heart goes out to you. That is a heavy load to carry, only through the Lord can we have true peace even when we are so cut ever so deeply. I am sorry, I hope I can encourage you by only saying that Jesus was tempted in every way as we were and when we are suffering the Bible says to consider Him who suffered so, all for the penalty of sin that we were guilty of. The thing that the Lord is speaking to me since May is about suffering. The pain is so hard to bear sometimes, I get so angry for the mistakes Ive made and some of the things I am bearing today are the result of past sin, none the less, some are not. I have 3 grown children and one speaks to me but lives far away, I basically have no one. But what hurts me more is the daughter whose father dumped us when I was pregnant and 20 something years later him and his wife pursue her and since then (8 years) and married a pastor and is a Christian, has little or nothing at this time to do with me(she treated me very good as her and I were best friends) before becoming involved in church , etc which has been somewhat of a negative influence since I left it years ago, I am as an outcast. But so was Jesus to the Pharisees, etc. I am burdened for you and the Lord give you strength and He will. Our trials makes us stronger, we are overcomers through Christ. One day all our pain and hardship will not even be a memory, if you are in Christ, we have this hope and promise! God Bless You and so very sorry for taking so long to respond to you. You are my Friend and Sister in Christ.
Thank you for your encouragement. Amen, God is so faithful and full of mercy, His compassion fails not. I am so glad we have a strong hold in the time of need and in the time of happiness.