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Bad news - lost baby

Just had 9 week scan.  Doctor ordered it because of low hcg.  Baby died a couple days ago.  I am devastated.  Had scan at 7 weeks and all was fine but obviously things have not progressed properly.  i am 42 and this was my last try.  i could try again, but cannot put myself through this again.  So sad.  I wish everyone better luck!  
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503649 tn?1304357466
I'm really sorry this is happening to you, I know how hard it can be.  Maybe you will try again after you heal from this.  I had 4 miscarriages and was very determined and wasn't going to give up, now I'm 26 weeks pregnant and will be 41 at delivery.

Good luck to you if you change your mind.

Debbie
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631676 tn?1333718203
i'm sorry too. my friend stop trying to at 39 after 3 m/c, but last week had a boy at 42. so you just never know. but either way you decide, looks like you'll have plenty of support.
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223372 tn?1240920676
I am so sorry to hear your sad news.  We are here for you!!!!!!
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605648 tn?1249571427
SO very sorry for what you're going through right now. I can only imagine how it may hurt ... I fear it every day. I wish there were more to say but at times like this, words seem insufficient.

God bless, Monica
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377493 tn?1356502149
I'm so very sorry.  I wish there was more to say to help, but I know its something you just have to go through.  We're here for you, and take good care of yourself.

Hugs to you.
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I am so sorry that you have gone through this. I have gone through it as well and I can understand not wanting to go through it again.
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359142 tn?1321120923
Our hearts go out to you.  Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
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480331 tn?1310403529
I'm so sorry to hear this happened.  I hope your pain and sadness goes away each passing day.  Take good care.  Pam
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